I've mucked around a little bit with bondage and spanking and I quite liked it, but really I find the hottest sex is rough sex. I like to be rough and I like my partner to be rough at the same time- but not necessarily damagingly rough. I don't hate dominating, but I do like some resistance. And while I like being submissive, it doesn't seem right without a struggle. Does anyone find bondage and rough sex incompatible?
For people who like rough sex; would you condiser your sex style to be Kingonesque? (Do both partners struggle against each other for control or actually wrestle in foreplay?) I mostly hear about 'dominants' and 'submissives' on the forums, but I don't think I'm either! But then I suppose dominants and submissives don't necessarily have rough sex.
Any perspective is welcome and I hope you enjoyed the video.