Originally posted by
Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
My wife has a lot more control in the bedroom than most for a whole host of reasons and history I won't go into. Having said that, she gets all the oral she wants when she wants it, and I get nada from her. Last time I had a blowjob was 7 years ago from a previous relationship. Lots of reasons for this, but over the years I've grown to be fine with this arrangement and even look forward to long oral sessions on her and that is often all we do. She gets several orgasms and I have to wait til next time. We both like it that way because it puts the focus on her as the woman.
So, oral is not foreplay a lot of the time for her, it's mostly the sex she wants and gets from me. But, I will say I can't remember the last time she didn't get oral before any sex session whether it leads to full blown sex or not. Know it sounds odd, but keeps her super happy and really works for us.