Do you think ball gags are degrading?

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Do you think ball gags are degrading?

Supervixen Supervixen
Quote:
Originally posted by bettle590
Male dom/female sub doesn't sit well with me because of the power dynamics. I personally would not enjoy it and feel degraded.

I know others either do not find it degrading at all, or consider that a part of the experience that they like. ...
Just curious; why are not comfortable with male dom/female sub? Are you okay with it the other way around, or if it was male/male or female/female?
12/12/2012
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
not something i would want to try but want to know what others think
not degrading. but take a lot of fun out. how can i suck a dick if i have a ball in my mouth?
12/12/2012
No-nita No-nita
A little degrading, yes, but for some people that's the whole point. Me, I just like to have things in my mouth.
12/12/2012
ASpiritedSlut ASpiritedSlut
I don't think it's degrading, I just think it's a great tool!
12/17/2012
BondageFan BondageFan
Ball gags are nut degrading, thru are fun, even the saliva problem and the soreness of my jaw to the fun of feeling helpless and that is without the pleasure of being tied up.
01/13/2013
bronzelotus bronzelotus
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
not something i would want to try but want to know what others think
I personally find them sexy, but I can understand how others might have a very different view point.
01/15/2013
kdlt kdlt
Aside from the saliva, I don't think they're inherently humiliating!
01/22/2013
Bleu Bleu
No but I have a different definition of degrading.
01/22/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
I think it all depends on the people involved and how it's used.
01/23/2013
mailroomorder mailroomorder
I've never used one, but I don't find them degrading. If you like it then you like it. There's nothing wrong with that. I don't believe in kink shaming.
04/20/2013
nimr nimr
For some reason they always "seemed" more degrading to me than other kinds of gags, but I think it's mostly because I've associated them in my head with pretty misogynistic porn. I'd be curious to use one in real life and see how that was different (which it would be, presumably, with a consenting partner I actually know and like).
04/20/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
I don't think so. but honestly I haven't mentioned it to the wife yet because I think she might.
04/20/2013
sunflower sunflower
I think being degraded is kind of the appeal for a lot of people.
04/21/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Depends...they can be it you want them to be, or they can be just another added piece of kink...thats what we use them for.
04/28/2013
karenm karenm
I think they are. But I guess all that matters is what the person using it thinks.
04/28/2013
Gdom Gdom
While I'm not sure that any particular item is degrading in and of itself, yes, ball gags are often (but not always) associated with degradation, humiliation, and the like. That's not necessarily a bad thing, however! That psychological aspect is one of the main reasons why ball gags are sexy and, provided the parties fully consent and want it, it's perfectly healthy.
05/01/2013
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