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From a guys point of view sometimes toys intimidate us. Especially the big vibrating ones! haha. Also, most of the toys don't help guys at all. What types of toys do you have? Maybe you could get some couple toys
I'm a little confused. You said Also, most of the toys don't help guys at all.
Hmmm. My Man sees my pleasure and my orgasms as helping BOTH of us
. He also understands that my
pleasure is just as important as his. He'll give oral sex until his tongue bleeds (not that that happens, it just shows the lengths he'll go to) so he introduced sex toys into our lives when a hormonal issue I was having was making orgasm difficult for me.
I need to ask, MnK, when you are using a toy on your woman, and she is getting off on what YOU are doing to her with the toy, and she climaxes like crazy, doesn't that do something wonderful for you? Isn't her
pleasure (along with your own) the key to your wanting to have sex? My husband says he'd rather watch me have an orgasm than have one himself. Not that he doesn't like orgasms, he's a pig for them.
But, he understands that I
need intense sensations to come, and although he provides about 80% of those sensations himself, I often still need toys to get to that difficult orgasm.
Even if I didn't, they bring a lot of pleasure to both of us.
Have you tried masturbation tubes? What about P Spot toys? There are a LOT of toys (including porn) that guys can get off with, too. If you both had toys, it might make it easier to accept hers. Does that make sense? Toy have brought My Man and I closer. Maybe it could do that for you and your woman.