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Foreplay for us...

Nirelan Nirelan 05/13/2012

I need to figure out a way to bring foreplay into my life. My man seems bored and I'm not sure if it's the lack of foreplay or not, but something needs done!

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Nirelan Nirelan
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Sex and Mischief intro to S&M kit
K101 , Sex Positivity , M.O.'s Girl , treefrog88 , OhMy! , Jeanette , MissCandyland , BlooJay , L&P3040 , jmex83 , MamaDivine , Sam I Am , humpday , Stinkytofu10
14  (32%)
Romantic massage kit
wetone123 , ejrbrndps , DeliciousSurprise , Ms. N , Badass , chantalgiardina , Stagger13
7  (16%)
The getaway kit
Zombirella , sexxxkitten , sktb0007 , padmeamidala , clix69 , Passion plum , Falsepast , VelvetDragon , Terri69 , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , ksparkles16 , roskat , mpfm , vintagina , Do emu , kittenfacery , romstomp , SadoMas , Loriandhubby
20  (45%)
None of these.... EXPLAIN
Greenleaf , unfulfilled , Beck
3  (7%)
Total votes: 44
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Zombirella Zombirella
It all depends on what you BOTH are willing to do. The BDSM kit might not be the best first choice to buy on a whim, some people aren't into that. I'm fine with hand cuffs but whipping/flogging and inflicting pain isn't cool with me so you would be best to check with your partner to see if that stuff would offend them.

Either of the massage kits would be a good start though I'm not sure how great the Romantic kit is so I'd probably go with the Getaway kit. It appeals better to me and the relationship I'm in.
05/13/2012
K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Nirelan
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
Sex and Mischief kit all the way! Although the romantic massage kit is really intriguing. I think either of those two would be fantastic. I have almost all of the Sex and Mischief line except this one and I really like them! I don't really find the other kit too appealing for some reason.
05/13/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
The getaway kit, so you can give each other massages. Kama Sutra has great products.
05/13/2012
sktb0007 sktb0007
Quote:
Originally posted by sexxxkitten
The getaway kit, so you can give each other massages. Kama Sutra has great products.
The Getaway kit. You can sample a bunch of the kama sutra products with your partner with this kit.
05/13/2012
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
massage is great foreplay........make him give you one with a happy ending!
05/13/2012
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Nirelan
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
I love the getaway kit and have ordered this before!
05/13/2012
Badass Badass
i would go with the romantic massage kit... and some sexy lingerie.
05/13/2012
Greenleaf Greenleaf
I'm going to be a brat and say none - simply because I honestly think you should *ask him* what he finds more interesting. Communication is extremely important in foreplay from my experience; some people don't react well to having new things sprung on them.
05/13/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Greenleaf
I'm going to be a brat and say none - simply because I honestly think you should *ask him* what he finds more interesting. Communication is extremely important in foreplay from my experience; some people don't react well to having new things ...
I agree with this to a point - but some guys don't want to ask for certain things - but will respond if offered.

If he's anything like me, he may have just gotten tired of always having to be the one who initiates sex. Surprise him with your enthusiasm - make a plan to do something special you know her likes - make a plan to do something completely new to him!

Planning is a great aphrodisiac for you as well. By the time you get to the real thing - you'll be so turned on that orgasm will be right around the corner - lucky for you - you can turn that into many more orgasms.

There's nothing like giving your gal multiple orgasms to build confidence - and for men, sex like business is a confidence game!
05/13/2012
Terri69 Terri69
I'd go with the getaway kit
05/13/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Getaway kit.
05/13/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Getaway kit.
Agreed, though I like em all! ^^
05/13/2012
Jeanette Jeanette
I'd go for the S&M kit but I am into that so... up to you what feels good!
05/13/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I wouldn't mind being tied up.
05/14/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
I'm thinking I like the idea of surprising him. I'm going to try the bondage thing soon and see if I like it. I KNOW he will like it.....
05/18/2012
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by Nirelan
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
romantic massage kit
05/21/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm glad you answered for us. I think it really depends on what you both are comfortable with and what you're willing to experiment with. My husband loves receiving massages, but doesn't like giving them.
05/21/2012
Beck Beck
I'm going to say none because after reading some of your previous post about BDSM things. I think you should go BDSM. But that one looks really cheap. I'd spend the extra money and get one like this.
05/21/2012
Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by Nirelan
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
Getaway is a safe pick.
05/21/2012
kittenfacery kittenfacery
have fun and communicate with eachother whichever you choose!
05/23/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
I'm going to say none because after reading some of your previous post about BDSM things. I think you should go BDSM. But that one looks really cheap. I'd spend the extra money and get one like this. ...
HA i just totally put that on my wishlist today!!
05/23/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
So I'm saving up and adding a LOT of different things to my "summer fun" wish list. The kids will be gone for a week at grandma and grandpa's so we will have more privacy to try this stuff out. I am getting more and more excited about it, especially since I've started reading "Fifty shades of Grey"....I'm def vanilla
05/23/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
hmm
05/28/2012
Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
Quote:
Originally posted by Nirelan
I'm thinking I like the idea of surprising him. I'm going to try the bondage thing soon and see if I like it. I KNOW he will like it.....
the sex and mischief kits are great starter kits to see what you like and don't like. best of all they are super simple to use and a ton of fun. I have a bunch of reviews up for them if you ever feel like peaking at them.

good luck. HUGS
05/28/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
The mischief kit looks fun
08/20/2012
k1985g k1985g
Spanking!


He's biting!  Let the foreplay begin!


Put on a short skirt--commando, walk up to him barefoot, and lay yourself over his lap. Tell him that you're gonna get naughty with him tonight
--spank me now so I know how naughty I can get with you!
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