How long should foreplay last?

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How long should foreplay last?

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Contributor: Kinkypixie Kinkypixie
How long?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
1-5 mins
5-10 mins
14  (15%)
15-20mins
28  (31%)
longer than above choices
49  (54%)
Total votes: 91
Poll is closed
01/27/2011
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Contributor: Not here Not here
Personally, I enjoy foreplay more than the main event because it's a lot more sensual for us. Don't get me wrong, I love a good fuck, but I think foreplay is vastly underrated for most people.

My man and I generally have foreplay that lasts anywhere from 30 minutes up to 4 hours. Makes things more interesting, in my opinion.
01/27/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
We don't really do foreplay, in the traditional sense of starting with foreplay then moving to sex. We go back and forth between different activities throughout the session.
01/27/2011
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
I think 20-30 minutes is a good amount of time!
01/27/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I like to last a long time - but my partner gets impatient after more than about 20 minutes.
01/27/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
at least 30 mins
01/27/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Not here
Personally, I enjoy foreplay more than the main event because it's a lot more sensual for us. Don't get me wrong, I love a good fuck, but I think foreplay is vastly underrated for most people.

My man and I generally have foreplay that ... more
Same here. Hours preferably. We love the before part because it makes the main event even better.
01/27/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
We do not engage in foreplay, as defined as being in bed, kissing touching, massaging. We just get right to it...I think things will change soon
01/27/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Depends on the day and time. Sometimes we like a LOT of foreplay, and other times I'm really impatient and want to get to it.
01/27/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
I like a lot of foreplay, but rarely get it . SO I always wish it lasted longer than it does.
01/28/2011
Contributor: hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinkypixie
How long?
Our forplay can go for over 2 hours and cover a wide area.
01/28/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
I don't like to wait I get inpatient anywhere from 2-15 minutes a person I also think what other people define as foreplay might be what I consider sex...
01/28/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
The more warmed up I am the hotter the sex is for me! The majority of the time the amount of foreplay that I get depends on what's going on and how much time we have.
01/28/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinkypixie
How long?
I would let it last an entire night if I could because to me,it's the best of times. My wife, however, only about ten to fifteen.
01/28/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I need and want foreplay. I usually need an orgasm prior to penetration and then move on to the Big O. If we had the time, I would like to play for hours, but it rarely happens.
Overall, the longer spent on foreplay, makes the Big O, more intense for me.
01/28/2011
Contributor: ud328 ud328
It's hard to answer this question. We get started with things that might be considered foreplay but even then it's debatable. It's like fore-foreplay. As far as traditional foreplay we don't do a whole lot. Sometimes we stretch it out and take our time getting things warmed up. More often than not though, once we both let on that we're ready to go, we just sorta jump each other and get to it!
01/31/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinkypixie
How long?
I voted 5 to 10 because its usually about 10 minutes for both of us before my wife and I can't stand it and we pounce. :3
01/31/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
The longer the better for me
02/01/2011
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
10-30
02/02/2011
Contributor: VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
The more foreplay the better!! Makes the main event a lot more intense.
02/03/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
All day long! Our foreplay is everything that happens prior to the clothes coming off, the seduction, the teasing, grabbing, kissing, flirting, flashing each other, etc. The longer it lasts the better the rest is gonna be!
02/03/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
as long as it needs to
02/03/2011
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
as long as it needs to
dido theres times where i cant get enough
02/03/2011
Contributor: null null
Longer than it currently does.
02/05/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Quote:
Originally posted by null
Longer than it currently does.
LOL true
02/06/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinkypixie
How long?
oral i give hubby a good long BJ but i usually want some out of it too then i make it better for him. usually 30 min or so then 5 min sex sometimes a good bit longer if something new or i go slow
02/11/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
It depends on the mood
02/12/2011
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
For me a good 20- hour :]
02/15/2011
Contributor: Jin Jin
Seconding as long as it takes.
02/16/2011
Contributor: Miss Jenn Miss Jenn
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinkypixie
How long?
I cant choose an answer you gave. You should have put an option of "other". Because Foreplay should last as long as the couple wants/needs it to last. It can vary for each person, and can vary anytime we have sex. So I cannot choose one of those options.
02/20/2011