I don't have the energy right now to go into the powerfulness of how much I hate
the word "foreplay." It intimates that only PIV is "necessary" and that things like kissing and oral sex etc (which usually are the things that get women to come) are not important. They are "before" the "Play" of regular PIV.
Is oral sex, oral play, touching, stroking, fondling, toy play, anal play etc absolutely necessary every time we have sex? FUCKING RIGHT IT BETTER BE!
I have already chosen the man I will spend my entire life with. I've been with him for many years. He wouldn't have been chosen by me if he hadn't been as into all the FUN of sex, which always includes oral sex, fondling, play, touching etc every single time. I would have kept looking. Women deserve orgasms as much as men do. Guys who try to get out of the things that help their partners come should be..... kicked to the curb. I know that's what I would do.... and did do to a couple of guys who didn't bother to give it their all.