I don't hate oral, but it doesn't cause me to reach orgasm. It's very much a tease, and my enjoyment of it is more mental. I find it sexy when a guy likes to give it. I need clitoral pressure to reach orgasm, and there is only so much pressure a tongue can provide. I'm much more likely to reach orgasm while being fingered, but even that takes a while. Vaginal sex is what causes my fastest and most satisfying orgasms.