Men; can you enjoy JUST foreplay, knowing you aren't getting sex at the end?

mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
I remember when I was younger I used to be a major tease because I was so afraid of STDs and stuff, that I would tease like crazy, but I would never get the guy off. Guys always told me how evil that was. So now that I am a little older, I wanted to know if men are capable of enjoying JUST foreplay.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, of course!
12  (44%)
Uh, no! What's the point of that?!
13  (48%)
Otherrrrr
2  (7%)
Total votes: 27
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10/07/2012
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Mwar Mwar
Mine guy is still learning.
10/08/2012
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
that can be painful usually thats why most men dont like it
10/08/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
When you were 'younger' - you're just 20! Aren't you still young?

I agree with the guys who say its evil - at least its selfish on your part. Presumably you did it for your own gratification - although how you could be satisfied afterwards is beyond me.

Girls have a complete right to draw boundaries - but they should be clearly communicated.
10/08/2012
cj89 cj89
i like it. its just something about how turned on i get and then i know im not getting anything, makes me feel kinda helpless and like it more, sounds crazy but thats how it is lol
10/15/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
When you were 'younger' - you're just 20! Aren't you still young?

I agree with the guys who say its evil - at least its selfish on your part. Presumably you did it for your own gratification - although how you could be ... More
as long as I get off...but I don't like teasing to no end.
10/15/2012
Sima-pusya Sima-pusya
Uh, no! What's the point of that?!
10/15/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
If it's early in the relationship, then I don't see the problem with just foreplay. After you're married, there's no point unless you want to torture each other.
10/15/2012
puglove puglove
Quote:
Originally posted by cj89
i like it. its just something about how turned on i get and then i know im not getting anything, makes me feel kinda helpless and like it more, sounds crazy but thats how it is lol
My fiance is the same way! Sometimes he wants me to play with him and get him to the point where he is about to get off and then just completely stop. This is not all the time but he does like this every once in awhile!
10/18/2012
IrishLassie IrishLassie
My husband and i have done this. Not on purpose. Sometimes on the weekends we would spend all day teasing each other in anticipation Of doing it later that night but something came up or it got too late and i/we go to bed without having sex in the end. He doesn't get upset because the joys of being married is there is always tomorrow.
12/04/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
Yes, it's a form of loving and showing love to my wife.
12/04/2012
Chou Wang Chou Wang
I'm enjoying a bit of teasing of course, but you literally get blue balls if yo don't come to the point
12/05/2012
Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
I enjoy it because then when I am going to finally get to have sex I know it'll be amazing because I have so much built up frustration.
02/15/2013
damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
I remember when I was younger I used to be a major tease because I was so afraid of STDs and stuff, that I would tease like crazy, but I would never get the guy off. Guys always told me how evil that was. So now that I am a little older, I wanted to ... More
Yes, of course!
02/15/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
NO, if I'm up I want to finish of course. What the point of it ? Creates frustration. Now if I was getting to climax several times a wk then I would say it is ok.
04/14/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
I remember when I was younger I used to be a major tease because I was so afraid of STDs and stuff, that I would tease like crazy, but I would never get the guy off. Guys always told me how evil that was. So now that I am a little older, I wanted to ... More
Sigel can and actually sometimes just prefers to tease but Arch wants the whole thing or nothing at all.
04/14/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
My guy says yes -- he says it's fun and that it's something that benefits both people rather than just one person. He likes the increase in anticipation for the next time, too.
04/14/2013
Rokmai Rokmai
Do you enjoy starring at a cheesecake, inches from your mouth, but not tasting it?
04/15/2013
MattBryant MattBryant
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
I remember when I was younger I used to be a major tease because I was so afraid of STDs and stuff, that I would tease like crazy, but I would never get the guy off. Guys always told me how evil that was. So now that I am a little older, I wanted to ... More
it is evil! but its good to be cautious.. but dont take the guys pants off if you arent at least gonna give him some hand action.. thats just mean.. otherwise making out and groping and grinding is perfectly enjoyable.
04/19/2013
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
I remember when I was younger I used to be a major tease because I was so afraid of STDs and stuff, that I would tease like crazy, but I would never get the guy off. Guys always told me how evil that was. So now that I am a little older, I wanted to ... More
As long as she knows I'm gonna go spank it afterwards, then that's fine. Otherwise, who likes getting all excited and left hung out to dry?
04/27/2013
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