My Partner Talks Dirty But...

callsignhusker callsignhusker
Our problem is that my partner's dirty talk is really goofy and usually makes us laugh which is funny sometimes but frustrating as well.. How can she learn how to be better at dirty talk?
03/13/2011
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Ansley Ansley
Maybe you could each make a list of the scenarios that turn you on the most and practice dry runs outside of the bedroom. If she takes issue with saying certain words or has trouble using slang terms in general, I suggest urging her to use it in every day conversation around the home when possible. Establishing a since of normality can usually get anyone over their inhibition.
03/13/2011
callsignhusker callsignhusker
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Originally posted by Ansley
Maybe you could each make a list of the scenarios that turn you on the most and practice dry runs outside of the bedroom. If she takes issue with saying certain words or has trouble using slang terms in general, I suggest urging her to use it in ... More
Thank you, great suggestions!
03/14/2011
ud328 ud328
Ha! Same issue. It works for about four seconds then one of us says something that cracks the other one up, usually her. I think we just need practice. She's never really done it in past relationships so there's that too. That being said, when she get its right, she nails it. I have hope...
03/15/2011
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
Is it the way its said or whats said that is goofy? Theres a book called the fine art of erotic talk. I have it but havent gotten around to reading it so i cant rate it yet for you.
03/15/2011
ImABarbieGirl ImABarbieGirl
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Originally posted by callsignhusker
Our problem is that my partner's dirty talk is really goofy and usually makes us laugh which is funny sometimes but frustrating as well.. How can she learn how to be better at dirty talk?
Simple. Watch porn. When they say something that you like, say "hey, say what she just said" And when she does, tell her that turns you on.
Thats how i learned at least LOL
03/15/2011
liilii080 liilii080
Yup, I second porn and add reading erotica. Hearing and reading it will help her learn what words are common and how to put them together so it doesn't sound comical.
03/15/2011
minifreak minifreak
Yeah, even after 6 years I still get all shy and embarrassed ...
03/15/2011
ChicaPrize ChicaPrize
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Originally posted by liilii080
Yup, I second porn and add reading erotica. Hearing and reading it will help her learn what words are common and how to put them together so it doesn't sound comical.
Good idea, porn I am will be much more dirtier than the erotica books.
03/15/2011
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by ChicaPrize
Good idea, porn I am will be much more dirtier than the erotica books.
Porn dialogue can be very repetitive and stupid. "Yeah suck my cock, suck my cock oh you dirty girl suck my cock", over and over again.
03/17/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I used to not be able to talk dirty. My partner fed me lines to say until I learned how to do it. Sometimes I read scenes out of erotica, but him helping me was beneficial because I knew exactly what he wanted.
03/17/2011
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