Do you send naked pics of yourself to partners? - from Em and Lo

Em & Lo Em & Lo
We ran a poll on EMandLO.com recently to ask readers whether they ever sent naked photos of themselves to partners, and if so, under what conditions. 47% said they do send nudie pics, but only to someone they are very serious with and trust completely. A bold 12% said they send nudie pics to casual and serious partners and alike. 10% said they hadn't yet but would like to, and only 31% said they never had, never would (we'd love to know what that percentage looked like a few years ago!).

So how about you? Do you send pics? And does your answer depend on the type of relationship? Or does it depend on the type of photo (e.g. your face is obscured)? And has anyone ever not sent nudie photos and later regretted it... for example, maybe you were insecure about your body back then and now realize how much you under-appreciated it?

And if you've never sent pics to partners, would you consider a nudie photo shoot for posterity, just for yourself?
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Quote:
Originally posted by Em & Lo
We ran a poll on EMandLO.com recently to ask readers whether they ever sent naked photos of themselves to partners, and if so, under what conditions. 47% said they do send nudie pics, but only to someone they are very serious with and trust ... More
Just pictures of my ass to a boyfriend and most recently,a girlfriend
09/01/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
No, I never have. He knows what I look like.

My partner is older (early 50s) and although he is an Engineer, he doesn't seem to be able to use his phone properly for anything other than phone calls. I am afraid what might happen to a pic, if I were to send him one. It might end up on his Mother's phone by accident or something.

I just don't want to.
09/01/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I do. And the person I've done it most frequently with (also did it in an effort to 'rekindle' my 1st marriage - didn't work) is my current boyfriend. I did however do it when we weren't super serious yet but there was nothing in the pics (face, tattoos, etc.) that would've made it easy to tell the pic from any other topless girl. Somehow I feel safer that way.
09/01/2010
NuMe NuMe
I have sent lingerie pics to my hubby.
09/01/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I can't think of any reason to send a picture to my wife, even if she had a phone that I could send them to. Sure it may be kind of fun but I feel there is to big a risk that it would wind up in the wrong hands.

After 20 years I have a really good picture of her already in my mind.
09/01/2010
seaofneptune seaofneptune
I've sent suggestive and partially naked pictures to my partner, he loves them!
09/01/2010
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I do it all the time. Whenever my husband requests one, I send it off.
09/01/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Believe it or not, I get really embarrassed about this stuff about my own body. I LOVE my body, but this technology wasn't around when I was in my teens or 20s and it takes some time to get used to. (In those days, you took pictures with film, then sent them to Walgreens or whatever and if someone there deemed the pictures "innappropriate" they would not only not print them, but I had heard of people having the cops called on them. One girl I knew took pictures of her boyfriend and he did of her, both full frontals. They printed the ones of her, but put stickers over the negatives of HIM and put a note in the envelope that the non-printed photos were "obscene and illegal." WTF?) Anyway, I just grew up, and had my best body in an earlier time.

A week or so ago, My Man and I were wrestling for the camera in the kitchen (he said, "I'm gonna take a picture of your ass and put it on Adult Friend Finder." just to piss me off.) He grabbed the front of my tank top and evidently did snap a picture. I didn't realize he had done it until about a week later. We were sitting on the deck with friends, and I was going through his camera, just looking at stuff. I saw this pic he had taken of me and it kind of hit me. "OMG, that's ME." At first I wasn't sure (it was just down the front of my shirt.) He started laughing and I said, "I really do have nice tits." He said, "I've been telling you that since, like, forever." I took one more look....then erased the picture.

I don't know....
09/01/2010
Apinkjellybean04 Apinkjellybean04
I do it all the time.
09/01/2010
clp clp
My sweets and I do sent pictures to each other, but I do view it as a necessity. We are in a long-distance relationship, so we are kindof limited in the ways we are allowed to get... eh... 'sexual'. It has been a very interesting progression, though, because at the start of this, I wouldn't do so much as a face pic. We have slowly moved forward, and though we are still above the belt for me, it has been fun to try and show as much as possible without showing anything at all. The art of the striptease!!
09/01/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
I do it on occasion, although it's mostly pictures of me in lingerie
09/01/2010
Kindred Kindred
I haven't before and have no plans to in the future. There are too many risks associated with sending pictures.
09/01/2010
Victoria Victoria
I've done it when my husband was on tour - it was very helpful to him! And I occasionally send him suggestive photos while he is working or at practice, just as foreplay, I guess. I totally trust him, and I know he enjoys it.
09/01/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I have sent very graphic pics to both guys when we are apart and they both love it. Neither of them would do anything that would hurt or embarass me so I don't mind.
09/01/2010
Avant-garde Avant-garde
I wouldn't because I would be afraid it would get out on the internet or they could be used to blackmail me or something.
09/01/2010
Sammi Sammi
I send him pics all the time on his cell phone. Typically not my face, although I have on occasion, but various body parts or activities.
09/01/2010
Owl Identified Owl Identified
Yep. I send dirty pictures to my partner as well as prospects sometimes, but just of body parts and usually not with an incriminating background in the picture that can pin me as the model.
09/01/2010
Blinker Blinker
My boobs are all over the internet and my boyfriend's computer.
09/01/2010
Waterfall Waterfall
I have a couple of times. I went to school far away from my previous partner.
09/01/2010
Envy Envy
I do sometimes, especially if it's a new toy my bf is dying to see me use. But I'd only do it with a serious relationship.
09/01/2010
NightNight NightNight
We used to do this a lot more before we got webcams.
09/01/2010
Coralbell Coralbell
I've sent pictures of my body in lingerie, but not naked, and I wouldn't want to show my face just in case.
09/01/2010
Not here Not here
I've only done it in 2 serious relationships. Hopefully the pics from my previous relationship didn't end up in the wrong hands, but there was no face in any of them, and I don't really care if anyone sees my body, after all it's all over the internet, with my face!

I know my man isn't going to let anyone see the pics I send to him, or that he takes on his phone, so I'm not worried. In fact my caller id photo for his phone is of me laying on my stomach, with my big ol' booty taking up most of the camera. I like to make him smile when I call him, after all

He also has a computer full of pictures of me, and me and him.. plus videos! Nothing quite like watching your man whack off to pics and videos of yours truly- definitely a huge turn on!
09/01/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
We do it all the time! I think he has like 200 pictures on his phone alone.
09/02/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I wish! I don't have a cell phone to take pics of me and send to my partner but if I did I would.

I would love to have really beautiful artistic photos taken of me for my partner to put in a special private calender or something like a secret photo stash. But I don't know that I would be comfortable taking pics of me bordering on pornographic.

We have made some videos of us having sex. We erased them right away after we would watch them. I hate watching us have sex, it's so funny to look at! I start laughing then my guy feels really bad. I think thats why we havent made any more videos, lol.
09/02/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
My boobs are all over the internet and my boyfriend's computer.
All over the internet? Really? lol
09/02/2010
Not here Not here
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
All over the internet? Really? lol
Lol yeah I was curious about that too.. hehe.
09/02/2010
Pleasured n Aroused Pleasured n Aroused
Quote:
Originally posted by Em & Lo
We ran a poll on EMandLO.com recently to ask readers whether they ever sent naked photos of themselves to partners, and if so, under what conditions. 47% said they do send nudie pics, but only to someone they are very serious with and trust ... More
All the time, it helps when you dont see each other for a couple days
09/02/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
Very rarely. It's just not my thing.
09/02/2010
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