I love being spanked hard, but not so much with a hand. I would totally prefer a crop. As for doing the spanking...I rarely do it during sex, but every time he walks past me, I slap his ass.
I don't really like to spank. I wouldn't mind a whip of sorts, but spanking a man with my hand just feels goofy...
As far as BEING spanked, I selected "other". I don't MIND it... But I don't like it. It just does nothing for me. I don't find it offensive and I don't think it BOTHERS me. It just doesn't make me hot.
Oh I absolutely LOVE spanking people and getting spanked! I still slap my ex's ass whenever I walk by. And I'm starting to get very skilled with my whip
I'll do it to float a partner's boat, but giving or receiving do nothing for me. Whipping or flogging interest me more, but I find it amusing more than arousing--especially if I can create shock-value or a spectacle in a public place like a sex shop or goth club.
I absolutely love getting my ass smacked hard while being fucked from behind. It's the submissiveness in me. I like being spanked and told how naughty I am.
I used to do some real spanking with a previous partner... But I just realize I never get spanked (not really other than a playful slap) with my current boyfriend. Bizarre.
I do like the ass grab too.
I love spanking and being spanked. Funny enough, one of the ways my current boyfriend flirted with me when we first met was to smack my ass, at first with the trays we use at work, later with his hand. Definitely my idea of flirtation!
What is more gratifying than that first sting then watching the perfect handprint appear on your bare body. I say yes to my lover spanking any part of my body other than my face.
I never enjoy being spanked, it actually aggravates me. If it's a light spank from a friend in a playful manner, I won't mind. But if someone hits me and it stings, I'll be lucky to hold my want to punch them back.
If my partner enjoys spanking, I'll spank them however hard/light they want though.
Although I have yet to actually be spanked, considering I absolutely adore flogging (despite only having been flogged twice before) I'd say I'd most likely love spanking too, so I voted Yay
Impact play and pain play of all kinds as long as it's within the mild to moderate threshold is a very big turn on for me, I just wish I had someone to have more of it with instead of just reminiscing about my past low-in-numbers experiences.