all of the above - except toys, because we have yet to purchase. sometimes we mix it up and try a lot of bondage (one time there was a chair involved, it was heavenly), and other times it's just me and him and foreplay
what kind of things do you do with your partner before having sex?
Usually pretty much everything there. However, I assume you mean prior to INTERCOURSE. That is always the last thing that happens, assuming it happens at all (and sometimes we just finish with oral orgasms).
All of the above depending on desire time and simply what we feel like. Sometimes it can be all in the same night or over the course of the day in little intervals till the main show or a combination of a few.