I like to start out early in the day when hubby is at work. I will send him text messages when I know he is in a meeting and give hints of what can happen that night. When I get a new toy, I will text him and offer him an "afternoon delight." It usually works!! Sometimes I will take a picture of the toy and send to him.
We've also found that watching porn works really well too! The cool thing about this is that we can watch the same movie several times because we get carried away and miss parts of it! LOL
Anyone else got good suggestions???