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Contributor: Airekah Airekah
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
I like soft and slow at first, but as things get going I like the intensity and speed to pick up a bit.
ditto.
01/27/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Yea.... I like a combination of touches, especially if they are something I wasn't expecting. Also I like mental foreplay that gets my mind all dirty and in the mood.
01/30/2011
Contributor: KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
When if comes to foreplay do you enjoy it more when your lover moves slow? Teasing every inch of your body, sucking your nipples and biting your neck, or dives right in teasing your clit/cock and talking dirty to you?
It really all depends on the mood at the time and what/where we were before. If we have been out where we could employ mental and subtle foreplay or at a party then normally I am too needy for the slow approach. If it is a case of we havent seen each other in a few days and I just got to his house then give me the slow so I can enjoy the feeling of him just touching me for a while.
02/23/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Our foreplay usually starts from the moment we wake up and get ready for the day. We are very "touchy-feely" and vocal.

I think we classify foreplay differently than most people do. Our foreplay mostly consists of the things we ... more
similar with my SO and I!
05/27/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
depends on the mood , but generally like both
05/27/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
ignoring all the loving stuff that goes on during the day (as I don't have sex every day!) Traditional foreplay to me really does vary on the mood. Sometimes you just want a soft, slow sensuous session, other times you want a take-control romp.
05/27/2011
Contributor: ParisLove ParisLove
both
09/14/2011
Contributor: PunkyB PunkyB
It doesnt turn me on if it starts slow...its just ticklish and a little irritating. I need fast and hard to get me worked up
09/14/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
The majority of the time I preferring just diving right in.
09/14/2011
Contributor: mcl272 mcl272
both! depends on the mood as to which i like more!
09/15/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I like slow and soft. I need to be touched everywhere, not just my breasts and vagina. Try to tell my husband that.
01/23/2012
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
both.
01/23/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Definitely both.
01/24/2012
Contributor: leelee leelee
both
01/27/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
depends on my mood
01/28/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
both
02/02/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
Usually start slow and build up
02/04/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It depends on the mood. If I'm already really turned on, than going all in is awesome. If I'm a little bit turned on, it helps me get so much hotter when he goes slowly
04/01/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
A combination of both, thatttttttttttttt's the real turn on!!! ^^
04/05/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
I like soft and slow at first, but as things get going I like the intensity and speed to pick up a bit.
True that! Too slow and it's pointless.
04/05/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I find being slow and soft turns out to be teasing. I'm a big fan of both.
04/06/2012
Contributor: northstar northstar
It depends what mood we are both in, but I usually like a bit of gentle play and kissing, along with some more passionate fondlage around other parts of my body!
04/16/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
for me the longer the foreplay the better
04/17/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
it just depends on our mood, but usually slow
04/17/2012
Contributor: ud328 ud328
Depends on the mood. If its a nice quiet evening, the foreplay (and the sex for that matter) should reflect that. If its a crazy awesome party/bar night, the sex should be crazy too!
04/23/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
depents on my mood
06/11/2012
Contributor: Lizard Lizard
Start out slow
06/11/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i like a mixture of both .. its hot
06/13/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
It really depends on my mood.
07/07/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
When if comes to foreplay do you enjoy it more when your lover moves slow? Teasing every inch of your body, sucking your nipples and biting your neck, or dives right in teasing your clit/cock and talking dirty to you?
Change it up, make it a tease.
08/30/2012