Keep striking out and tired of it

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Keep striking out and tired of it

AnalArtist AnalArtist
Hey, I just became single again and gahhh I'm striking out. I just don't know what to do. I go out, to a restaurant or a bar. See an attractive lady, go to talk to her and blah. I ask if we could meet up for drinks and either get shot down or give out my number and then don't know what to do. I am not looking for a serious relationship or a one night stand, I really just want to get ou and have some fun. Any advice?
09/08/2008
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Robyn Robyn
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Originally posted by AnalArtist
Hey, I just became single again and gahhh I'm striking out. I just don't know what to do. I go out, to a restaurant or a bar. See an attractive lady, go to talk to her and blah. I ask if we could meet up for drinks and either get shot down or ...
so whats your angle? you are looking for what? a playmate? I'm not trying to be rude just most women sense the lack of commitment on your part and don't want it, so you'll either find the one that just wants to go out and have fun, or you need to ask for her number if you think she is feeling the same way you are! either that or just take your time everyone strikes out once in a while, i was single a year before i found the right guy again,
09/08/2008
AnalArtist AnalArtist
Thanks for the advice. I do want a relationship, well moving soon so don't want to end one or go into a long distance thing. But thanks for the advice, helps a LOT.
09/08/2008
Cock Wrangler Cock Wrangler
I've never figured out how to meet people for dating, etc. I usually just encounter them randomly... but no matter what your methods are or what you're looking for, being honest with yourself about what you want is important. You won't find/have the right types of involvements if you have too many mixed signals about what involvements you're after.
Also, if you just became single again, is it really the time to start looking for a relationship already? Relationships tend to pop up when least expected, in my experience/observation ... maybe taking some time to do fun things just for yourself will end up being a good way to meet someone, anyway.
09/08/2008
Always Aroused Girl Always Aroused Girl
Post on Adult Friend Finder. Seriously. I've had great luck there, especially once I got active in the local interest groups.
09/08/2008
BeeLeaveMe BeeLeaveMe
I actually met my husband on americansingles.com. I was newly single from a long term relationship and not looking for anything serious. As a matter of fact I was casually dating a few people at the time. When I met my now husband I was really just looking for a one night thing or someone I could call up whenever I was lonely. After I told him and was up front about the fact that I just wanted to be um... friends with the benefits. We ended up just falling for each other and recently got married after a four year relationship.

The internet is so much easier because you can find out a little something about people before you even attempt to talk to them.
09/08/2008
Harlequin Harlequin
keep trying!
12/12/2010
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
Quote:
Originally posted by AnalArtist
Hey, I just became single again and gahhh I'm striking out. I just don't know what to do. I go out, to a restaurant or a bar. See an attractive lady, go to talk to her and blah. I ask if we could meet up for drinks and either get shot down or ...
Hmmm date rape drug? naw j/k.
10/10/2011
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