This is something that I've been wondering about for a while.
My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 months and other than emotional bond we have and me using toys on her...thats pretty much it with sex. We're both bi and we both have sex with my husband (we're poly).
Shes uncomfortable going down on anyone (men or women) and when it comes to using toys on me she's so awkward and uncomfortable with it I just have to stop because it makes me feel like she dreads even thinking about having sex with me.
I'm not sure what to do about this or where to go with it. We've talked about our lack of sex life (we haven't had sex since before December) and she blames it on stress but I think its that she really just isn't wanting to have sex with me.
I will add that though she does have sex with my husband, its very rare as she's hardly ever in the mood.
Does anyone have any advice for me?
Have you ever known someone who says they like girls and guys but doesn't seem to be into having sex with girls?