Affairs

Contributor: BabyL0ve BabyL0ve
no and hopefully never in my life
08/10/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
as far as i know, i haven't...
08/10/2011
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
How many of you have been victims of affairs?
I prefer physical cheating over emotional. Well, actually I prefer no cheating! lol.
06/03/2012
Contributor: LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
How many of you have been victims of affairs?
this sucks and hurts bad
06/03/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I don't understand that. If you don't like the person, just break-up with them.
06/03/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Never have, hopefully never will.
07/12/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
I don't think I can be called a "victim", as I only found out about it after my husband had passed away. Years later, in fact. Though I guess it gave me a lot of insight into my own behavior at the time.
07/12/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
Affairs are selfish. I wouldn't wish that hurt on anyone.
07/14/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
How many of you have been victims of affairs?
I have not.
07/14/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I have been on all three sides of an affair, and it's all awful.
07/14/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Luckily no, and I don't think it will ever happen. I trust him completely and he's allowed to sleep with whomever he chooses.
07/14/2012
Contributor: EdenUser EdenUser
Nope.
07/14/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
I haven't but I haven't dated much.
07/14/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I haven't been a victim, as far as I know.
07/14/2012
Contributor: ss143 ss143
I have been cheated on and almost 9 years later we are still working on it. Its hard and hurt so much.
07/17/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Never been involved in one
09/28/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
no, but have wondered a couple times w/ 2 partners
10/01/2012
Contributor: ID42 ID42
My husband cheated on me emotionally and physically. With his ex from high school no less. She came to visit us Christmas of '08 and that's when it started. He even went out of town to see her right about Valentines the following February. Most heartbreaking of all, I got pregnant with our littlest one that same Christmas. He cheated until I confirmed my suspicions after months of denial from him, two weeks before the baby was born. We've never been the same. Won't ever be the same. We had been married just shy of 9 years. We're still together, but like I said, it just isn't the same. We are still trying, but mostly I'm just busting my ass to get through school and get working so that I can handle my own shit if anything bad happens again.
10/16/2012