Are you close to your ex?

chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Do you stay close with any of your exs? I try to avoid mine as much as I can because we ended for a reason and I find it inappropriate in most situations. ( personal opinion)
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we are polite, but not friendly
Femme Mystique
1  (1%)
we are friendly
married with children , invisiblehat , carenautilus , amazon , Carawr2015 , Creepellah , Trysexual , Hazeleyes2012 , dancingduo , Missy27 , PropertyOfPotter , SydneyScreams , spiced , froggiemoma
14  (18%)
we hang out all the time
humblepie , cicispizzaisyummy , nikki0668 , xGOLDx , butts , CollegeFun2014
6  (8%)
I avoid my exs
Chilipepper , deltalima , kadelette , XxFallenAngelxX , GirlOnGirl , anonymous1298304 , BlooJay , Hermosura21 , Lildrummrgurl7 , sillylilkitten , SilverMinxxx , darthkitt3n , Beautiful-Disaster , burtnuh , cowgirl1130 , nova2014 , BrittaniMaree , Kirill1171 , Cosmonaut , kaykay0427 , KinkyNicki92 , jfree , higs , Silverwinds , PassionCpl , Rokmai , CountryPrincess , Gary , IamKC , ChubbyNerd , TdotY , lillmiss5054 , MsDrProfKitty , GONE! , Bme
35  (45%)
other?
Newmie , Rory , comatose-kitty , Lickable Lollie , brevado , Gone (LD29) , solitudinarian , *Camoprincess* , XYCopperheadSly , Bleu , ScarletFox , LoneOokami , Vanille , SecretKinksters , Hummingbird , Pete's Princess , RonLee , friendswithfangs , karenm , RaspberryRogue , SaucyxGirl
21  (27%)
Total votes: 77
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01/11/2013
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Newmie Newmie
Quote:
Originally posted by chantalgiardina
Do you stay close with any of your exs? I try to avoid mine as much as I can because we ended for a reason and I find it inappropriate in most situations. ( personal opinion)
Depends on how we ended things, generally after 3 months we can speak on a semi regular basis if desired so. They turn into like casual friends
01/11/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I have an ex-husband and an ex-FWB. The ex-FWB ended it himself in a cowardly manner (not telling me with avoidance), and I ended a bad marriage with my ex-husband. Although I still have my ex-husband's contact information for when I can finally get our stuff out of storage and he can get his crap. The ex-FWB is still on my FB flist (he neglected to defriend me for some reason), but he hardly updates unless his girlfriend of the month posts pics of her and him together.
01/11/2013
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by chantalgiardina
Do you stay close with any of your exs? I try to avoid mine as much as I can because we ended for a reason and I find it inappropriate in most situations. ( personal opinion)
I kept in touch but I stopped.
01/11/2013
Rory Rory
Ex what?? I'm still married since 1978!
01/11/2013
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Considering they still try to contact me and follow me around on websites, it's hard to get rid of them.
01/11/2013
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
It depends on which one
01/11/2013
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Don't have an ex
01/11/2013
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
I'm still good friends with my ex boyfriend. We live like 4 hours away from each other though, so we just talk on facebook. He gives me advice on my current relationship sometimes lol
01/11/2013
BlooJay BlooJay
I'm not close with any of them.
01/11/2013
carenautilus carenautilus
Depends on the ex. *shrug* My latest ex-play partner and I are pretty friendly.
01/11/2013
novanilla novanilla
Only one! The others I do not speak to in any capacity.
01/11/2013
nikki0668 nikki0668
Quote:
Originally posted by GirlOnGirl
It depends on which one
Same here. It depends on which one. My recent ex...no way! My first ex...yes, we go out for supper and drinks about once a week.
01/11/2013
Hermosura21 Hermosura21
Quote:
Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
I'm still good friends with my ex boyfriend. We live like 4 hours away from each other though, so we just talk on facebook. He gives me advice on my current relationship sometimes lol
Lol do ur current.boyfriend not get mad
01/11/2013
amazon amazon
Fairly
01/11/2013
brevado brevado
Close in a distant way
01/11/2013
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Not at all. I pretty much have no contact.
01/11/2013
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I really only have one ex and we aren't in contact at all.
01/12/2013
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I've been in the same relationship since I was 17 (in 1997), so there's not a whole lot of exes to be worried about. I just kind of grew apart from most of the people I dated in high school. There is one girl I dated (who also dated my husband at one point) that things ended badly with, and I certainly stopped all contact with her on purpose. My first boyfriend, who I dated when I was 14/15, died in a car accident a few years ago. We did stay in occasional contact with each other before he died.
01/12/2013
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
Quote:
Originally posted by Hermosura21
Lol do ur current.boyfriend not get mad
I think if anything, he appreciates it because it's making things better in our relationship It's more of my ex telling me what went wrong in our relationship and how he thinks it could have been better, but also him learning from his mistakes in previous relationships
01/12/2013
xGOLDx xGOLDx
I have a mix of we now hate eachother and avoid at all costs, but one of my best friends is my ex and we dated for a year. I've also had a room mate that was an ex first. It all just depends on how it ended and why.
01/12/2013
sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I was friends with my ex for a while, but he was very emotionally manipulative and abusive, so I finally cut him out of my life for good a couple months ago.
01/12/2013
butts butts
My most recent ex, no, he's not welcome anywhere near me and I've made it clear that contact is not ok. My first boyfriend though, I still hang out with, he gets along with all of my friends (including my current partner) but he's a silly guy, he never really grew up.
01/12/2013
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Oh heck no.
01/12/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
nope. i avoid all exes.
01/12/2013
solitudinarian solitudinarian
I'm still with my first boyfriend.
01/13/2013
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
One of my exes is without question my best friend and one is fairly close to me because of things we have gone through but all of the rest I stay away from.
01/13/2013
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I was close to 3 of my exes but now I don't really talk to any of them which is fine by me. I also have the exes who leave me or cheat on me to realize the one they left me for wasn't better then me so they come back apologizing an trying to beg me back.
01/13/2013
Creepellah Creepellah
Quote:
Originally posted by chantalgiardina
Do you stay close with any of your exs? I try to avoid mine as much as I can because we ended for a reason and I find it inappropriate in most situations. ( personal opinion)
I'm friends with my ex. Hang out sometimes.
01/13/2013
burtnuh burtnuh
My most recent ex, (it's been almost 5 years) thinks we're still going to get back together, so I avoid him. I tried being his friend, but I don't want back into that relationship because one he was horrible, and two I'm inlove with my current boyfriend. I've had to block him on every social networking site and change my number because he was constantly hitting me up and stalking me at work. :/
01/14/2013
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Unique posters: 64