Cuddling after Sex

Cuddling after Sex

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Badass Badass Feb 8, 10:27 am

Just a few questions about your cuddle habits.

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Discussion Topics

1.
Do you cuddle after sex? (64 posts)
2.
More cuddling? (21 posts)
3.
Have you had a partner who didn't like to cuddle so much after sex? (16 posts)
Badass Badass
Do you do it?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
82  (62%)
Lisa72, switzerland, JustLikeHeaven, Coralbell, Jessica (Buttercup Green), padmeamidala, Pi, punkstar283, kittychilla, Do-Re-Mi, LAndJ, eeep, Stinkytofu10, xyrella, ddd masturbator(bye all!), A.Mari, Gold Lion, darthkitt3n, Swish, oneeyedoctopus, SilverMinxxx, (k)InkyIvy, Graniteal, Stagger13, shcoo, fredacarl, urhappybunnie, Mwar, Rawr4483, mistre$$, Incendiaire, ExquisiteSensations, potstickers, Dominekoyasha, BiJess, ellejay, lokoum, Lano4ka, purple579, dhig, SiNn, dbm6907, MamaDivine, Trepier, Akikaze, jmex83, Aratal, Ice1, tom fay, plaidvulva, bayosgirl, garylangworthy420, DiamondKoala, comatose-kitty, Howells, ejrbrndps, Azule, Curiouscat, StarFire, Missmarc, aliceinthehole, Hallmar82, NurseKitty, panthercat23, palindromic, bh253, hillys, MistressDandelion, ShyGirl717, sexxxkitten, RickyNStephy, cryinglightning86, d.wooldridge, Ilovelingerie, Arch600, CherryGryffon, SMichelle, caligaliber, ghent529, roskat, winterseve, NarcissisticLust
12  (9%)
////, Elnoa, unfulfilled, hippie, cottonxcandy, ChickenFeathers, chantalgiardina, Shellz31, jc123, nirelan, SouthernBelle, beatingthebinary
17  (13%)
wdanas, Cookie Monster Mike, Undead, Eliyahu, js250, Sara Jones, Jon S, mpfm, Silverdrop, Lady Bear, corsetsaurus rex, RomanticGoth, toxie m, Caus, CynicallyYours, VelvetDragon, solitudinarian
21  (16%)
BobbiJay, sktb0007, Boink, DynamicKitty, thelittlestdoc, SparklyGlitter, Brandonn, married with children, Nazaress, slynch, funluvinmama, Mew, catsin, misskat, BlooJay, Love Obsessed, Melan!e, badk1tty, bballard3, LoveBug721, silverdragonfly9
Total votes: 132
Poll is open
Feb 8, 10:28 am
sktb0007 sktb0007
We do, but not every single time.
Feb 8, 11:34 am
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Eh, weirdly afterwards the majority of the time we get up and go do something rather than relax and sleep. Just depends on the day and time of day. But yea we more often cuddle than not.
Feb 8, 11:46 am
Lisa72 Lisa72
me and my girlfriend always do.
Feb 8, 11:48 am
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Usually we do
Feb 8, 12:34 pm
Eliyahu Eliyahu
usually, but sometimes sex makes us hungry, so instead of cuddling we make a post-sex snack and watch a movie or something (and then we cuddle on the love sac and sleep until one of the kids wake us up).
Feb 8, 12:41 pm
js250 js250
After my cigarette. Usually we cuddle unless one of us isn't tired.
Feb 8, 3:57 pm
Jessica (Buttercup Green) Jessica (Buttercup Green)
We cuddle for like 10 minutes, and then we both roll over and go to sleep. We both like our space when we are sleeping. I am satisfied with our current cuddle time!
Feb 8, 4:09 pm
DynamicKitty DynamicKitty
We do cuddle after sex but not every time. Mostly I fall asleep and he's bouncing off the walls haha.
Feb 8, 4:09 pm
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
We enjoy cuddling up after sex.
Feb 8, 4:12 pm
//// ////
I hate cuddling after sex. I don't even really want to be touched after sex.
Feb 8, 4:23 pm
Angelica Angelica
I usually hate it but i like it with my current guy.
Feb 8, 4:41 pm
Sara Jones Sara Jones
Usually.
Feb 8, 8:50 pm
LAndJ LAndJ
We almost always do since it's right before bed typically. We love cuddling and do a lot.
Feb 8, 8:58 pm
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
cuddling is one of the best activities we do
Feb 8, 9:32 pm
Coralbell Coralbell
Always! I love it.
Feb 8, 11:22 pm
thelittlestdoc thelittlestdoc
I'm not a huge fan of cuddling, to be honest. If you're doing it right things should be a bit messy once the action is over. I like to wash up a bit and usually use the toilet. My partner is always welcome to join me in the bath or shower if I'm not going to be right back in bed.
Feb 9, 3:32 am
unfulfilled unfulfilled
He's a wam, bam, thank ya mama and leaves to do whatever and I finish off with a toy.
Feb 9, 11:18 am
Swish Swish
everytime, my hormones call me to do it! oxycodons, they make u wanna cuddle. so we do otherwise i get kinda depresssed
Feb 9, 11:28 am
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
99% of the time I like to cuddle. I usually fall asleep a couple of minutes into it though.
Feb 10, 1:45 am
fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
most of the time
Feb 13, 4:14 pm
urhappybunnie urhappybunnie
yes! it seems so natural for us.
Feb 15, 6:34 pm
Mwar Mwar
Yes! A good amount of time we cuddle and THEN it leads to sex. That's fun too!
Feb 16, 5:51 pm
Lady Bear Lady Bear
If it's a quickie there's no time for cuddles!
Feb 23, 7:17 pm
lokoum lokoum
Cuddling before and after!
Feb 24, 1:48 am
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Look at all these duplicate polls!

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Feb 25, 6:30 am
dhig dhig
yep we do
Feb 25, 1:56 pm
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
I love to cuddle after sex
Feb 25, 3:08 pm
hippie hippie
my current partner loves cuddling after sex, he begs for it more than i do.
Feb 25, 3:32 pm
dbm6907 dbm6907
My partner and I cuddle any time we are in bed together.
Feb 26, 6:13 pm
fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
yes
Mar 1, 5:35 pm
Trepier Trepier
Most often when it is at night and not something that is quick. Usually fall asleep like that.
Mar 9, 4:58 am
funluvinmama funluvinmama
we cuddle about once every 3 months. not as often as I would like.
Mar 18, 3:05 am
tom fay tom fay
We cuddle, just not after sex. He just goes straight to Zzzzz land
Mar 18, 3:09 am
plaidvulva plaidvulva
All the damn time!
Mar 18, 3:21 am
garylangworthy420 garylangworthy420
every single time one of my favorite things in life
Apr 2, 12:00 am
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Almost all the time. He's usually too sweaty for me to get comfortable for very long.
Apr 4, 11:57 am
ChickenFeathers ChickenFeathers
My wife and I cuddle after sex sometimes, but it usually turns into a mess because of the cum.
Apr 11, 12:39 pm
BlooJay BlooJay
Sometimes, depends on when we do it.
Apr 11, 1:46 pm
Curiouscat Curiouscat
Yes/sometimes.
Apr 11, 1:53 pm
Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
Sometimes I like to cuddle after sex.
Apr 11, 2:00 pm
Melan!e Melan!e
Sometimes.. Not always.
Apr 11, 2:33 pm
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Just about every time.
Apr 11, 3:49 pm
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
it's completely, 100% necessary for me. i need our hearts to touch. i just need to feel close, during and after. it's a consolidation of all the loving, a wind-down. ah i love post-coital cuddling!
Apr 11, 5:49 pm
Caus Caus
We do it.
Apr 12, 9:39 pm
CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
Almost always.
Apr 12, 9:46 pm
NurseKitty NurseKitty
Always, even if it's just for a few minutes. There is something different and really awesome about post sex cuddling.
Apr 12, 11:58 pm
VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
Sometimes we just ... depart right after, during afternoon quickies. It makes it feel even more naughty. XD But a lot of times we cuddle too.
Apr 26, 1:06 pm
bh253 bh253
I love to cuddle. I would feel sad if I didn't get to..
Apr 30, 10:20 pm
hillys hillys
haha its a requirement in my current relationship, or if your running late you can say you owe me a cuddle later
Apr 30, 11:55 pm
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I'm a huge cuddler. I don't think that's a word, but I'll go with it.
May 2, 2:53 am
nirelan nirelan
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Yeah, we just roll over and he passes out and I facebook LOL
May 2, 3:11 am
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
We always cuddle... We are big on spooning usually.
May 5, 8:59 am
badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Not a big cuddler.
May 15, 11:17 pm
beatingthebinary beatingthebinary
Wow, I totally clicked the wrong answer to a question... I definitely cuddle a LOT after sex.
May 20, 12:29 am
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Personally after sex I like to have more sex


But yes, we cuddle after sex.
May 20, 7:59 pm
Arch600 Arch600
Quote:
Originally posted by Ilovelingerie
Personally after sex I like to have more sex


But yes, we cuddle after sex.
Ha ha! I love it!

We cuddle but not every time. I think more as we've gotten older though.
May 20, 8:40 pm
bballard3 bballard3
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
I usually don't want to. Can we touch without him putting his leg over me? I feel like a freaking ottoman. Anyway, occasionally he will want to cuddle.
May 23, 12:19 pm
ghent529 ghent529
after we smoke we cuddle.
May 23, 2:06 pm
Collogue Collogue
we cuddle all the time
Yesterday, 11:08 pm
CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
sometimes
Yesterday, 11:39 pm
Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
I'd rather they get off me and leave, lol. I'm a girl by the way. ;-)
12:47 pm
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
I enjoy cuddling immensely. When I have sex with another person, it's mainly for the connection and intimacy. So, cuddling after partner sex is right for my needs.
2:40 pm
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you do it?
Cuddling is a must.
2:52 pm
Total posts: 64
Unique posters: 63
Badass Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
1  (1%)
bballard3
58  (82%)
sktb0007, Boink, wdanas, Lisa72, switzerland, JustLikeHeaven, Coralbell, Pi, punkstar283, Stinkytofu10, xyrella, Elnoa, Jon S, mpfm, oneeyedoctopus, SilverMinxxx, Graniteal, Silverdrop, mistre$$, ExquisiteSensations, potstickers, Dominekoyasha, lokoum, slynch, purple579, dhig, SiNn, dbm6907, MamaDivine, Trepier, Ice1, plaidvulva, bayosgirl, Howells, cottonxcandy, misskat, toxie m, DynamicKitty, Melan!e, StarFire, queergaze, Hallmar82, Caus, panthercat23, Aratal, VelvetDragon, palindromic, Lady Bear, jmex83, bh253, RickyNStephy, solitudinarian, cryinglightning86, Ilovelingerie, CherryGryffon, sexxxkitten, SMichelle, LoveBug721
6  (8%)
darthkitt3n, Missmarc, aliceinthehole, CynicallyYours, MistressDandelion, winterseve
6  (8%)
unfulfilled, Nazaress, comatose-kitty, chantalgiardina, ejrbrndps, silverdragonfly9
Total votes: 71
Poll is open
Feb 8, 10:29 am
sktb0007 sktb0007
I'm completely fine with our cuddling pattern.. It's not too much, but it's not too little... or at least for me anyway. My partner may disagree (he likes cuddling much more than I do)
Feb 8, 11:35 am
Lisa72 Lisa72
i got more than enough.
Feb 8, 11:49 am
Coralbell Coralbell
We do it every time, so I really couldn't ask for more cuddling.
Feb 8, 3:58 pm
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I'm satisfied because we cuddle just about every time after sex.
Feb 8, 9:33 pm
unfulfilled unfulfilled
As I mentioned in the other, we don't cuddle so it would be nice every once in awhile to get some cuddle time.
Feb 9, 11:19 am
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I'm happy with it!!!
Feb 10, 1:45 am
Dominekoyasha Dominekoyasha
We always cuddle!
Feb 23, 12:17 am
dhig dhig
our routine is good lol
Feb 25, 1:57 pm
purple579 purple579
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
I like to be cuddled with sometimes but other times I don't want to be moved cause I'm focusing lol
Feb 25, 1:57 pm
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
we cuddle so much that i cant comp,lain
Feb 25, 3:09 pm
plaidvulva plaidvulva
There are plenty of cuddles B)
Mar 18, 3:21 am
Melan!e Melan!e
I'm pretty happy with our cuddle time.
Apr 11, 2:35 pm
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
I wish we can cuddle more, to be honest.
Apr 11, 3:49 pm
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I actually like to cuddle more than my wife simply because I like to hold her and she feels good. However, sometimes she thinks I'm smothering her.
Apr 12, 11:57 am
Caus Caus
I'm pretty satisfied with the cuddles.
Apr 12, 9:40 pm
CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
Cuddling depends a lot on my mood and the acitvities that preceded it. I tend to need the cuddling more after really rough sex. More romantic sex can sometimes fulfill my cuddle needs.
Apr 12, 9:45 pm
Aratal Aratal
We both didnt mind spending all of our free time cuddling when we were together. Yay, long distance relationships!
Apr 26, 1:05 pm
Lady Bear Lady Bear
My partner and I both love cuddling so I am pretty satisfied. ^_^
Apr 29, 11:40 pm
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
No, but this is only because we cuddle after every time.
May 20, 8:00 pm
bballard3 bballard3
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
Do you wish there was more after sex cuddling in your relationship?
I'm the only one who hates cuddling? I can stand hand holding in public, rubbing his shoulders or back or whatever, but I kind of hate having someone all over me.
May 23, 12:20 pm
Total posts: 21
Unique posters: 21
Badass Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
Feb 8, 10:30 am
BobbiJay BobbiJay
Settled with an arm over my chest and a leg over mine. Sometimes a cuddle is great other times just an arm and a leg.
Feb 8, 11:27 am
Lisa72 Lisa72
ditched the boyfriend and got a girlfriend.
Feb 8, 11:49 am
Coralbell Coralbell
My ex refused to cuddle, but there was nothing I could do to solve it. One of many reasons why we aren't together anymore.
Feb 8, 11:21 pm
unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband doesnt cuddle but I don't know if he doesnt like it or is just ready for something else.
Feb 9, 11:25 am
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I had an ex that didn't really care for it.
Feb 10, 1:46 am
Graniteal Graniteal
Quote:
Originally posted by Lisa72
ditched the boyfriend and got a girlfriend.
Feb 10, 9:26 pm
ExquisiteSensations ExquisiteSensations
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
It didn't work out
Feb 22, 12:18 pm
dhig dhig
yep, and it didn't work it
Feb 25, 1:57 pm
queergaze queergaze
Like with any problem in a relationship, I'd find the right time to have a conversation about it. If your partner doesn't know cuddling after sex is so important, they might not even know they're upsetting you. And if they simply can't/don't want to do it, if the cuddling is very important to you, they should care about you more than they dislike cuddling after sex. And if it's less of a priority maybe suggest they don't have to do it every time, or you understand they need a minute or two to recover from sex before engaging in physical activity again.
Apr 12, 11:50 am
Caus Caus
I'm that partner lmfao.
Apr 12, 9:41 pm
CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
We argued a lot then I added another partner who likes cuddling so I get what I need if not all from the same person.
Apr 12, 9:44 pm
Shellz31 Shellz31
I didn't do anything about it. It just seemed natural to go to our own sides to sleep.
Apr 30, 11:50 pm
cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Quote:
Originally posted by Graniteal
Brilliant!
May 19, 11:48 pm
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
No I haven't, but I have only had one partner.
May 20, 8:02 pm
bballard3 bballard3
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What did you do to solve the issue?
Is that an issue? LOL.
May 23, 12:21 pm
Total posts: 16
Unique posters: 16