Do you and your significant other have very different sex drives?

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Do you and your significant other have very different sex drives?

kitsuneyouko5 kitsuneyouko5
Do you and your partner have very different drives? One of you wants it all the time? The other not so much? Or do you have the same drive?
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Yes, two very different wavelengths
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Nope were on the same station
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Used to be the same, now not so much
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4  (5%)
Used to be different, now we're the same
Depends on when we're talking about here
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16  (20%)
Total votes: 79
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03/22/2011
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tickle me pink tickle me pink
Yes, unfortunately! One of us usually has to convince the other.
03/22/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
He wants it more often, almost constantly. I like it have it as a treat a few times a week. But in the end we compromise and everyone is usually happy.
03/22/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by PiratePrincess
He wants it more often, almost constantly. I like it have it as a treat a few times a week. But in the end we compromise and everyone is usually happy.
That has to do with your ages. It was like that for My Mr and I. It levels off. I tend to want it more than he does now, but it's pretty well-matched now. I'm rarely turned down, vice versa.
03/22/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
We've always both had the same sex drive. We both love sex. And sex with each other is the best we've ever had.
03/22/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Mine has always been much higher. Lately she's trying to close the gap and it's working at least in part because as I age my capacity has decreased.
03/22/2011
liilii080 liilii080
His job has put a damper on it. We used to be pretty evenly matched and I hope we can get back there after this position ends. Until then I have plenty of toys and when he teases me about them, I tell him he should be thankful because they've taken a lot of the weight off of his shoulders (and they keep me in a good mood ).
03/22/2011
kitsuneyouko5 kitsuneyouko5
we usedta be on the same level now it seems i want it more, then again im home with the kids all day so i tend to be yanking my hair more than him lol
03/22/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Things are a little slower now that I'm in the last month of my semester and with his new job, lets just say we're both exhausted at the end of the day,

We will do it atleast once a week.
03/22/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
We used to be the same but now I have the higher drive.
03/22/2011
sbon sbon
We're pretty much on the exact same page. Our lives/schedules get in the way more than our sex drives.
03/22/2011
married with children married with children
it depends on her cycle. some times she is always ready to go, and other times I have to beg. I am hopping that her sex drive gets higher now that she is in her early 30's
03/23/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
Well, he is a little older than me (not much), and his drive is lower than mine.

I have actually been turned down a handful of times.
But some of those times were when I was hoping for twice in one day (morning and then evening)... and he is just tired and wants to sleep.
03/23/2011
Linga Linga
We are pretty much the same. Both ready to pounce on each other whenever possible!
03/23/2011
Onanist Onanist
My wife has gone through menopause and das a very low sex drive, while mine is still very active.
03/23/2011
extrafun extrafun
Im horny all the time, my wife goes throught times where she is not into it and then other time she cant get enough. It can be very frustrating on my part because you never know when either with strike. And no it does not correlate to her period.
03/23/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
Unfortunately, we almost never match up but we're both usually into it after a little coaxing.
03/23/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Sometimes we are almost always hot for one another and other times were like strangers. :/
03/23/2011
cectru cectru
With us, the roles are nontraditional and I have the more active sex drive than he does. The pace of a sexual relationship is almost always dictated by the person with the lower sex drive or desire to try new things.
03/23/2011
Collodion Collodion
Quote:
Originally posted by sbon
We're pretty much on the exact same page. Our lives/schedules get in the way more than our sex drives.
This.
03/23/2011
tffnyandrs tffnyandrs
Almost always (say 99%) of the time we are the same! But we aren't shy about convincing the other and it doesn't take much, *blush*, hehe.
03/24/2011
ac0313 ac0313
Quote:
Originally posted by Linga
We are pretty much the same. Both ready to pounce on each other whenever possible!
this. unfortunately, our location and schedules do not allow for us to have as much fun as each of us really wants.
03/24/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Our sex drives are about the same; it's usually pedal to the metal.
03/24/2011
zracer zracer
I hope in some time our drives can match one another.
03/24/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't have a partner but in the past there's never been a perfect match.

I have learnt too much about my sexual side to ever stay with someone who can't match me in the future! Life is too short.
03/25/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
Quote:
Originally posted by kitsuneyouko5
Do you and your partner have very different drives? One of you wants it all the time? The other not so much? Or do you have the same drive?
we both have high sex drives . the green lights usually on for both of us
03/25/2011
KsPlaything KsPlaything
Absolutely! I usually want it in the middle of the day. He wants it at night and in the morning. At about 11 either way, we're good to go!
03/27/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Waaaay different drives. I wish we could get on the same page.
03/28/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
Are are very different as I am usually ready for something a couple tmes a week while she is freaky for like a week then nothing for a couple weeks.
03/28/2011
aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
Quote:
Originally posted by kitsuneyouko5
Do you and your partner have very different drives? One of you wants it all the time? The other not so much? Or do you have the same drive?
my bf and i are always horny. always. lol.
if i don't pounce him, he pounces on me. and vice versa. it's great!!
03/29/2011
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