Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

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Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

Sinfully Sinfully
It used to bother me, only cause my ex had an addiction to it. Within moderation I don't have a problem.
06/19/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
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Originally posted by Alura Une
Yes, like your partner--I'm pretty uptight and people who are too relaxed frustrate me. I have a weird sort of pride attached to my uptight-ness! Uptight people, unite! I'm sorry that it bothers you, though.
Aw! Alure, don't worry about it bothering others. It's not like it effects them. I am the same way. Porn bothers me very badly. My partner and I are totally 100% against it. In fact we're both active FAPPERS!
06/20/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
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Originally posted by markeagleone
If my wife watched it, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I would only hope a part of her thinks of me. I don't thinl I have to worry, though. If she watched it, it would be with both eyes closed. I personally haven't for years. I learned ...
OH MY! Wow. That was so sweet. I was reading through this little thread and my partner and I DO NOT do the whole porn thing and to be honest, it really bothers me to hear people constantly say bad things about us all because we choose not to. Anyways, reading what you said was really refreshing! I often get hung up in threads like this and get paranoid thinking oh heck, it's all hopeless. My partner's going to end up doing what everyone says and hid his porn habits, but it gave me hope to see your comment. I never hear people say it's possible to only want the person you are with and I'm always being told that it's a lie. My partner tells me he only wants me & that was his choice. I guess it isn't impossible for men to stay away from it. I think it's so precious the love you and your sweetie have for each other and I hope my partner and I are the same even after we're 80! lol.
06/20/2011
jesseftm jesseftm
Doesn't bother me at all! Especially since we both like very very very different porn. We just decided not to tell each other about it because apparently she doesn't even like to hear about what I watch haha
06/23/2011
BoomersGirl BoomersGirl
YES! I have severe body image issues and I would feel horrible if my hubby were looking at nude women with or without me. Fortunately, he isn't bothered by it and is fine with not watching stuff like that.
06/30/2011
CuteDee CuteDee
I watch porn w/o my partner so I cant really tell him not to. Its funny cuz his ex wife would always get mad at him so when he got w/me, he was excited to be able to watch porn and not be in trouble. However he told me that now it kind of has lost its excitement since its not "dirty" or "wrong" anymore.
06/30/2011
skunked skunked
Has never and will never bother me. everyone needs their "me" time
06/30/2011
onehotmomma onehotmomma
I don't really care
07/01/2011
Noira Celestia Noira Celestia
Nope doesn't bother me at all. Though my feelings might be hurt if I wanted to watch it too and wasn't invited. Though it's basically the same feeling I get whenever my partner watches any movie without asking if I wanted to watch it with him.
07/01/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Sometimes I know he peeks at some online before he comes to bed (I can tell from his face. LOL! And the fact that he attacks me with gusto as soon as he comes into the room, even if I'm in the middle of something.) The only reason it bothers me when he does that is that I would have been happy to watch it with him! Sometimes I'll then put on a DVD for us, so we can both watch together.
07/01/2011
redstarr681 redstarr681
no not at all
07/03/2011
DexterStratton DexterStratton
She has absolutely ruined porn for me. But I don't mimd.
07/03/2011
Eucaly Eucaly
It's really good for him to look at porn by himself. If I'm too tired, then I'm too tired.
07/09/2011
Possibly Normal Possibly Normal
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Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I say no, but if he did it all the time and instead of having sex with me then there'd be a problem.
This is exactly how I feel. I understand and respect my SO's man to hand relationship, however if it gets in the way of OUR relationship that is a problem.
07/09/2011
lanky lanky
my wife can do whatever she wants
07/09/2011
Endocott Endocott
It's not her sleeping with other men, and if its what she wants to do, who am I to judge/stop her?
07/09/2011
js250 js250
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Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
We both enjoy porn and also if you think about the fact that they are home with a movie and not out with another person that changes the 'betrayal' factor some of my friends have felt.
07/09/2011
Marziba Marziba
If it becomes an addiction, then I do have an issue. But if he doesn't care for it, he isn't getting addicted, so meh.
08/16/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
It wouldn't both me if she told me. If she kept it a secret it would bother me a little.
08/17/2011
Taylor Taylor
That'd be pretty bad of me to get upset at a partner for watching porn, when it's something I do quite often and enjoy doing. Assuming they have what I would consider reasonable porn watching habits, I don't have a problem with it.
08/17/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I would not want him to watch porn, and he doesn't want me watching it either.
08/18/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
I would actually prefer if I was given the opportunity to watch it with her but I wouldn't get all bent out of shape If I caught her watching something by herself. I would actually be interested about how she would react to the porn by herself honestly.
08/18/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
No I look at porn by myself sometimes and it would make me a total hypocrite if I did care.
08/18/2011
BellaDonna2884 BellaDonna2884
No it doesn't bother me.
08/18/2011
PDXlady PDXlady
It just depends for me. I used to be really jealous and asked him to stop watching porn so he did but now I'm mostly fine with it if he wants to.
02/08/2012
SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
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Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I say no, but if he did it all the time and instead of having sex with me then there'd be a problem.
I agree with this.
02/08/2012
Errant Venture Errant Venture
I wouldn't have a problem with it at all.
02/08/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
Less work for me haha
02/08/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I use porn way way more than he does
02/10/2012
Destri Destri
Doesn't bother me. He likes different types of porn than I do, so it would be boring if we only watched things together. He loves his porn, and it has never interfered with anything around here at all.
02/10/2012
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