It does not bother me as much as it used too. The secrecy does bother me. But I guess it still feels rather weird to say 'Dont come in, I about to masterbate". Haha. I feel that we are pretty similar in taste, am I am more than open to see porn with him. I just feel that sometimes people want privacy, its not about the other person, simply about wanting to be alone once in a while.