Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

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Do you care if your husband/boyfriend or wife/girlfriend looks at porn by themselves.

SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I think it would depend on what kind of porn it was and if he was doing it secretly. I like us to be open about things.
02/10/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
No not really
02/10/2012
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
If he's in the mood and decides to look at porn instead of wiggling his eyebrows at me, we'll have a problem. But if he's in the mood and I'm not (though, it's not hard to change my mood), then he's more than welcome to look at porn. It's just a matter of making sure he's not wasting a perfectly good hard-on on pictures instead of me! lol
02/10/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
For the most part no, he's pretty firm in his monogamy. I guess I'd only worry if he started watching mainly guy on guy porn because I'm not a guy.
02/10/2012
RonLee RonLee
Mind?!@&$
I encourage it!
02/10/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
It wouldn't bother me. I know my friends S.O. hates the idea and refuses to allow him to watch it so everyone's different.
02/10/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
No I really don't care. He never watches it anyway. When we lived apart, it turned me on when he'd admit to watching it while he was away from me if it had been a long time since we'd been together.
02/10/2012
Apirka Apirka
It would depend on if they watched it by themselves ALL THE TIME and refused to watch with me. That's a little weird.
02/12/2012
Kush Kush
Depends
02/12/2012
bsgs bsgs
it doesnt bother me at all, she tells me i can watch all i want to, as long as it doesnt interfere with our sex life
02/12/2012
Silverdrop Silverdrop
Wouldn't give me a second thought. He can look at and beat off to whatever he likes, and he better allow me the same privilege.
02/12/2012
fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
doesnt bother me
02/13/2012
bunniebunnie bunniebunnie
doesn't really bother me
02/15/2012
Midway through Midway through
Wouldn't bother me in the least, I watch it alone all the time.
02/15/2012
Mwar Mwar
Let him look! It's fantasy and what not. It's only if he started to turn to it instead of me. Then I would be wondering what was really going on.
02/16/2012
eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
I have been in relationships where I did mind and some where I didn't. Depends on the trust and relationship dynamic and current feelings between the two,
02/22/2012
purple579 purple579
Quote:
Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I say no, but if he did it all the time and instead of having sex with me then there'd be a problem.
I feel the same
02/25/2012
Swish Swish
it doesn't bother me until he doesn't want to have sex because he masturbated to porn earlier that day
02/25/2012
jokerzwild jokerzwild
Not at all unless it disrupts there sex drive with me.
02/26/2012
Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
No, I watch it by myself.
03/26/2012
Anastasia Beaverhousen Anastasia Beaverhousen
Nope, not at all.
03/28/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
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Originally posted by Yoda
My wife feels porn is sexist, and for the most part, I agree. When I think about it, and I mean REALLY think about it, porn just makes me feel sad, and I start to think that our society values all the wrong things. I'm sorry if that's a major ...
That is a good response, and a refreshing opinion
03/28/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
It would bother me. But neither of us watch it so it isn't an issue.
03/28/2012
Sexy Housewife Sexy Housewife
Quote:
Originally posted by Krissers
I know a lot of couples watch porn together, but would it bother you if they watched it by themselves ?
Yes, i mind. I've seen too many relationships, marriages and families torn apart because of erotica and i wouldn't want to be one of them.
03/28/2012
plaidvulva plaidvulva
They can look at it all they want.
03/29/2012
Paula Paula
Quote:
Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I say no, but if he did it all the time and instead of having sex with me then there'd be a problem.
Exactly
03/29/2012
dragonn dragonn
Quote:
Originally posted by Morganna
We watch porn together and while we're apart. We both do it so it doesn't really bother me.
Same here.
03/31/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Nope. Never really bothered me because I do it all the time too so it would be a bit hypocritical.
03/31/2012
northstar northstar
Doesn't really bother me, so long as we're open about it which we are.
04/16/2012
CandE CandE
It does not bother me as much as it used too. The secrecy does bother me. But I guess it still feels rather weird to say 'Dont come in, I about to masterbate". Haha. I feel that we are pretty similar in taste, am I am more than open to see porn with him. I just feel that sometimes people want privacy, its not about the other person, simply about wanting to be alone once in a while.
04/19/2012
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