I have been with my husband for 8 years. When we first got together like anyother relationships the sex was the total best. But here lately this past year I have came to the conclusion that its starting to get boring. We use to do the sex toys and the foreplay before having sex. But now its gone down hill. He only wants to have sex when I fight with him about it. Which is actually kinda strange cause usely the men are the ones who fight with the women about the sex. He just says he is stressed from work. Now I know alot of you are probably going to think that hes cheating on me, but really hes not and dont have the time to. when we do, do it. Its wham bam thank you mam. What is your out look on something like this? And am I the only one who is going through something like this?