Do you have a rule for how long you'll date someone before moving in with them?

  • Get a FREE Bullet with Orders $59+

Do you have a rule for how long you'll date someone before moving in with them?

charletnarouh charletnarouh
What's your rule? Or, how long have you waited before moving in with someone?
03/26/2012
  • Buy 1 Toy, Get 1 FREE
  • Save 20% on Luxury Toys
  • Add Some Buzz To Your Favourite Toy & Save 60% On Kit
  • Pick Any 2 E-Stim Toys, Get 60% Off A Kit
  • Stock Up On Gifts! Save 80%. Limited Quantity
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
sktb0007 sktb0007
I don't have any rule, no. For me it is more of a comfort level with the person and how compatible I feel with them. I think moving in together is a big step so it takes a bit of time so I am more sure (rather than jumping into it and it being a complete disaster)
03/26/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by sktb0007
I don't have any rule, no. For me it is more of a comfort level with the person and how compatible I feel with them. I think moving in together is a big step so it takes a bit of time so I am more sure (rather than jumping into it and it being a ...
Totally agree!

I've done just about every way of living with someone. In the end, it all depends on how the couple works together.
03/26/2012
lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
What's your rule? Or, how long have you waited before moving in with someone?
1 year
03/26/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
What's your rule? Or, how long have you waited before moving in with someone?
I don't have any rules. My ex husband and I couldn't live together until we were married-Parents orders. We were young though at that point, I was pregnant, and we figured "Hey, next step-lets get married so we can live together!" Yeah, that didn't work out so hot.

I didn't live with anyone else (that I was dating) until I met my current hubby. I have kids from my previous marriage and it was very important that I not introduce my kids into a situation or relationship unless I KNEW it was going to be something serious.

Of course, with them living with their dad for a while, I allowed my (now husband) to move in with me after only a few months of dating. But we knew it was going to be long term. Guess itw as one of those gut things.

The kids met him about four months into the relationship and he has been great with them ever since. Kids adore him, we now have another daughter-together and things are good!

I would definitely say that it would depend on my living situation, the relationship and how well I knew the person though. If I had known about my ex husband BEFORE we moved in together, like I did AFTER we moved in together, I probably wouldn't have married his ass lol.
04/02/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
I have never moved in with anyone, but I think I'd be hesitant to for a very, very long time. I enjoy alone time and privacy far too much.
04/02/2012
dragonn dragonn
Quote:
Originally posted by sktb0007
I don't have any rule, no. For me it is more of a comfort level with the person and how compatible I feel with them. I think moving in together is a big step so it takes a bit of time so I am more sure (rather than jumping into it and it being a ...
Yup. Comfort level, communication. I talked about living arrangements for a very long time before moving in. Even so, there were a lot of complicated things that we didn't expect.
04/15/2012
Total posts: 7
Unique posters: 7