We do not live together as yet due to several reasons. I live alone in a small apartment, while he is staying with his parents at their flat and is looking for his own place to rent. Even though we've been together for a year and a half, I have only one pillow, so when he comes over we have to share it
We discussed the obvious solution of buying another one million times, but I think he is scared by the underlying message of that. If he has his own pillow at my place it's like a first step to moving together. Obviously, that's not what he wants right now. And - frankly - not really the right time for me as well.