Do you look through your partners cell phone?

Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
So I was just curious to see if anyone else snoops through their partners cell phone? I will admit that I do occasionally sneak a peek at my husbands cell phone to see who all he has been talking to and what about! I know I might be crazy but I can't help it!
02/07/2011
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Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by Purpleladybug
So I was just curious to see if anyone else snoops through their partners cell phone? I will admit that I do occasionally sneak a peek at my husbands cell phone to see who all he has been talking to and what about! I know I might be crazy but I ... More
I never do it to snoop, but very occasionally I'll need a phone number and grab her phone to look for it.
02/07/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
I havnt really been all that suspicious. If im curious about something I'll ask or we both hand eachother our phone when it rings and we look, not because we suspect something, just curiousity. If we didnt want me to look than I'd be worried.
02/07/2011
onehotmomma onehotmomma
Nope. He's not given me a reason to. In all honesty, if I were afraid he were doin something sketchy I'd just ask him. He's a horrible liar, and I can read him like a book
02/07/2011
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
We both have access to each others phones and we've been known to swap from time to time just to look through and stuff. We both trust each other. He just likes to remind me why he thinks his iPhone is superior to my Android *huffs*
02/07/2011
KikiChrome KikiChrome
Nope. Never done it and hopefully never would.

I think that trust is the bedrock of any good relationship. If I felt the need to look through his phone and see who he's been talking to, then I'd probably sit down and think about why I was in that relationship in the first place.

Having said that: I'm sure he wouldn't care whether I looked through his phone. We both leave our phones lying around where the other person can get to them. It's a sign that we trust each other.
02/07/2011
toxie m toxie m
Never
02/07/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I don't do it to snoop. Like Vaccineum, sometimes I'll need a phone number that he has. Other times we'll be driving and he'll have me respond to text messages for him, and sometimes I'll read the other ones in the inbox, but he's sitting right there and very aware of what I'm doing. But we trust each other not to have anything that needs to be hidden, so neither of us really care if the other one can get into the other's phone.
02/07/2011
Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I don't do it to snoop. Like Vaccineum, sometimes I'll need a phone number that he has. Other times we'll be driving and he'll have me respond to text messages for him, and sometimes I'll read the other ones in the inbox, but ... More
Exactly what I was going to say! He'll do the same for me too. I trust my husband so there's no hiding anything and no need to snoop.
02/07/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I don't. I trust him and wouldn't want to find something I wasn't meant to see. I expect the same from him.
02/07/2011
hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by Purpleladybug
So I was just curious to see if anyone else snoops through their partners cell phone? I will admit that I do occasionally sneak a peek at my husbands cell phone to see who all he has been talking to and what about! I know I might be crazy but I ... More
No never.
02/07/2011
Kim! Kim!
No. I don't like my privacy violated and I expect the same from my relationships. It isn't a matter of having things to hide but a matter of just liking my things being mine. I think it comes from growing up the oldest of 5 kids and sharing a room for years. Combine that with a super-control freak step mom and a diary-reading mom and you may very well end up with me. I don't care if it's just a text that says "hi". I just dislike people going through my things.
02/07/2011
CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
I don't feel the need to snoop in her phone, though I will say that I saw her journal out and wanted to take a peek, but I couldn't violate her privacy like that.
02/09/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
Not unless he's handing it to me to show me something on it. I know and trust my Hubby wholeheartedly. There's just no reason to be nosy.
02/09/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I've never looked through his phone. I don't like people doing things like that to me so I won't do it to him.
02/10/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I wouldn't!
Cause I wouldn't want a partner doing that to me even though I have nothing to hide.

Besides, from what I have learned - if you happen to see some chick or dudes number in your partners phone, you can easily jump to conclusions when it could simply be innocent.
02/10/2011
DONOTSHOPHERETHEOWNERISPSYCHO DONOTSHOPHERETHEOWNERISPSYCHO
We both look through each other's phones, but there's no need to snoop. We do it in full view of each other. We both feel that there should be nothing either of us are trying to hide, so we're free to randomly go through each other's phones.
02/10/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Nope, no need to
02/10/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I don't do it to snoop. Like Vaccineum, sometimes I'll need a phone number that he has. Other times we'll be driving and he'll have me respond to text messages for him, and sometimes I'll read the other ones in the inbox, but ... More
Same here!
02/10/2011
married with children married with children
Just if I need a phone number out of her phone that I do not have in mine. But that has only happened twice. Other then that, no need to.
02/10/2011
*Huxley* *Huxley*
Yeah, I do.
I never find anything exciting so I guess thats good.
02/11/2011
The Giveaway Diva The Giveaway Diva
never because I trust him!
02/11/2011
SerenityRed SerenityRed
I would never look through his phone. That is his thing and I trust him completely. Occasionally I'll answer it if he's in the shower or something, or hand the phone to him saying he has a text from so-and-so but I would never look through it.
02/22/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I never felt the need to and I never have.

I did check his FB once to see if he added some weird freak chick that he met at a party who wouldn't fuck off. When I saw he refused her friendship proposal, I felt relieved but also really guilty that I had creeped him and vowed never to do it again.
02/22/2011
Rarity Rarity
I don't look through his phone to see who he's been talking to and saying what, but I do like to look through his phone occasionally since his phone is a different model, set in a different language (Dutch), and things of the sort for curiosity's sake.
02/23/2011
Mlee Mlee
I used to do it every chance that i got after i found out that he was talking to one of his ex girl friends. I don't do it as much now unless i feel that he is trying to hide something or being sneaky
02/23/2011
ImABarbieGirl ImABarbieGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Purpleladybug
So I was just curious to see if anyone else snoops through their partners cell phone? I will admit that I do occasionally sneak a peek at my husbands cell phone to see who all he has been talking to and what about! I know I might be crazy but I ... More
I don't snoop. He knows I look. I get curious as to who hes texting, whos texting him. Occasionally I ask " who is this person " and he will tell me.

He can look thru my phone anytime he wants. I have nothing to hide either.
02/23/2011
slynch slynch
Never have, don't have a reason to
03/05/2011
RonLee RonLee
Absolutely not!
My Ex did that to the extreme, frequently accusing me of cheating on her. If she called me at work and I missed her call because I was away from my desk, she would accuse me of having sex with someone at work. Often I caught her going through my phone, pda, web browser history, even my car. I suspect that it was a mental illness. I tried every way that I could think of to get her help. Through all of that I was indeed faithful to her, until the the divorce.
If you find yourself compelled to engage in that kind of behavior, PLEASE GET PROFESSIONAL HELP. It could save your relationship and possibly your life.
03/05/2011
Alyxx Alyxx
I wouldn't do it, and he doesn't do it, but my boyfriend and I have made it clear that we wouldn't mind either of us doing it. We have nothing to hide from each other. I used to have to practically keep my phone on me at all times to keep my ex from snooping, though. Although, honestly, I did have things to hide from him. He'd also ask for details any time I got a call or a text, because he didn't trust me to even have friends.
03/06/2011
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