We don't plan it, but we also don't have really busy schedules where we would need to do this... I hope we never get that busy because one of the things I like about spontaneous sex is that it just happens. I feel that planning would kill a bit of the excitement. Then again, we don't do that so I could be wrong.
i dont think its as fun or enjoyable when you have to plan an intimate moment with your partner.whether theres busy schedules with work or kids having to plan to have sex takes the spark out of a relationship i think.be spontaneous and drag him in the bathroom for a minute or tell the kids you guys gotta fix something in the garage ...life is to short to even have sex planned!
We do both. We both work and we have a son so spur of the moment doesn't happen as much as it used to. For example, even if the night isn't planned, I can promise that no sex will happen until 9pm because that's after my son has gone to bed. That kills some of the fun that we used to have just lounging around and having things progress, but it's part of life.
We do have date nights where sex is a sure thing, so I guess that's fully planned sex. In the case of date night, it's no less fun.
I miss random sex, but we don't plan every small detail either. We try to have a nice balance.
We do both. We plan certain date nights where sex is definitely going to happen, but we also are spontaneous too. I don't find planned sex nights any less fun - they're just a part of life. I don't find it less romantic or anything, actually, to be perfectly honest, I really like our planned "date nights". It's something we both look forward to all day, knowing what's going to happen that night... it's really fun!
Spontaneous sex is the best for us, but we don't always get the opportunity to do that. Sometimes we'll set aside some play time when we know we won't be bothered with work or family demands, but we don't plan out exactly what we'll do so it's still a bit spontaneous for us anyway.
We like to be spontaneous, but with work schedules and kids it works much better to have planned time for sex.
I like to be spontaneous too, but have a busy schedule. My partner and I usually just allot a general period of time for 'cuddles' a lot of the time, and sometimes it's spontaneous sex and sometimes it's just snuggling.
We have to wait for the opportune moment. Since we don't live together (two college seniors living at home) it can be very difficult. Sometimes though that can make it very spontaneous because we get unexpected alone time.