Do you still make love?

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Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
when you're in a relationship for years do sex feel like love making, sex or fucking>
07/02/2012
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Contributor: talon4196 talon4196
Yes. It depends on our moods.
07/02/2012
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
We still make love.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I don't like the word "fucking". I let that be known. It's just my opinion and how I feel about it but I let my guy know that associate it with what you do with someone you don't care about (no one take offense, it's just my opinion and I know others like the word and no judgement here). It's sex or making love, and yes, we still do
07/03/2012
Contributor: wdanas wdanas
It's never "fucking" for us. After all these years, we might have quickie sex, but anything else is definitely making love.
07/03/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
A lot of the time we do!
07/03/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Yep, it's fun
07/03/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
Yep! Depends on our mood though what we call it. If we are in a rough mood, it's fcking. If we are in a gentle mood, it's making love.
07/03/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
We have all of the three. I don't mind "fucking" but one of my partners and I have a D/S dynamic that allows for that rough kind of casualness on occasion. To me "making love" is rare because it has to be an emotionally charged event. Often it is just sex which i absolutely ok with me.
07/03/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
We do both depending on our mood. I think the norm for us is more like making love though.
07/03/2012
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Depends on the mood. Sometimes it is making love, sometimes having sex.
07/03/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
All of it. Depends on what we feel like calling it during that particular session or part of a session. We've had session where we "fucked" and "Made Love" at different times during the session.
07/03/2012
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
After 40 years of marriage, we do all three, but would have to say we "make love" more often than the other two.
07/03/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
mostly make love, but every now and then we go at it like animals
07/05/2012
Contributor: Bodhi Bodhi
We actually rarely make love.

Most of the time it's rough, and hard, but still loving.
07/05/2012
Contributor: bh253 bh253
Depends on our moods.
07/05/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
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Originally posted by P'Gell
All of it. Depends on what we feel like calling it during that particular session or part of a session. We've had session where we "fucked" and "Made Love" at different times during the session.
Agreed!
07/05/2012
Contributor: Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by Modern^Spank^Anthem
when you're in a relationship for years do sex feel like love making, sex or fucking>
It changes depending on the mood.
07/06/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
It's never 'fucking' for us. It's always having sex or making love. :]
07/10/2012
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
All of the above! I've been with my man for 10 years and still go at it like frisky bunnies or make love it all depends on our mood. it's harder to find time with kids but still do it more then the average couple. Sex is important to us I feel it helps to keep our relationship as close as we are.
07/11/2012
Contributor: meluaz69 meluaz69
Nope we have been together for 17 years and now we just F&^*! and we both love it that way. ok i guess we slip in the "love" now and then but for us sex is just that raw uninhibited SEX and the lovin we do all the rest of the time...... there is no lack of Lovemaking it just isnt while we have sex
07/21/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
We've "made love" maybe three times in six years. That equates to tender, loving sex to me. Neither of us really like that. We mostly "fuck" which is exactly how I like it. It works for our dynamic and relationship. Wouldn't have it any other way. I don't wanna think about how much he loves me when we fuck. I just want him to take me. Good sex for me is raw and rough, not roses and cuddles.
07/21/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
All of the options you mentioned.

We often start off slower and more tender then less so as things heat up which is how we both like it. When I use the terms 'sex' and 'fucking' about my husband, they still fall under the general header of making love - just different expressions of it.
07/21/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
You do what you want. None of the above are wrong. Some people like romantic, some like it rough.
07/23/2012