Does your partner give input on toy purchases?

novanilla novanilla
I always seem to have a hard time getting info out of partners about what toys they want. I especially try to push my current partner to talk with me about what to buy for us since we use our toys together. I don't want to buy things my partner is not interested in. Whenever I ask though, I don't get straight answers, or I'm told "I don't know," "you pick," and that sort of thing. I know it's not disinterest, because we both are enthusiastic about purchasing new things. It's just always left up to me on what to purchase! Do other people have similar situations?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I do all the toy shopping without input from my partner.
Rossie , Mrs.Tee , Creepellah , deltalima , travelnurse , MasqueVivi , nova2014 , evie.amor , karenm
9  (16%)
I do all the toy shopping with some input from my partner, but also do a lot independently.
padmeamidala , SydVicious , Feisty , Cosmonaut , Terri69 , hhh , Curvy , Kissaki , table38792 , mjtheprincess , sexxxkitten , XxFallenAngelxX , sillylilkitten , joiedejouets , Hummingbird , nikki0668 , F1akaLuvsE.F , falalena , LoooveMonkey , wrecklesswords , higs , KayJay , epiphanyjayne , ToyBunny , Bleu , Qozt , myluv , SP , Stagger13 , AliMc
30  (52%)
I do all the toy shopping but my partner is really clear with what they do/don't want.
ArchVixen
1  (2%)
We toy shop together.
Thinkingman , Icecrystals12 , Gluesnffr , Septimus , Rory , Deeder , Dustin LaBorde , darthkitt3n , SecretKinksters , Diablotin , KinkyNicki92 , Bignuf , Bubaloo , woodsdragon
14  (24%)
Other
atryonix , comatose-kitty , Incendiaire , PropertyOfPotter
4  (7%)
Total votes: 58
Poll is closed
01/21/2013
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SydVicious SydVicious
I do most of the toy shopping alone. My husaband is usually up for whatever, and most of the time lets me pick whatever I want. Sometimes he will pick something out, but it's rare.
01/21/2013
Feisty Feisty
I do most of it on my own.
01/21/2013
Thinkingman Thinkingman
Quote:
Originally posted by novanilla
I always seem to have a hard time getting info out of partners about what toys they want. I especially try to push my current partner to talk with me about what to buy for us since we use our toys together. I don't want to buy things my partner ... More
I will locate items of interest. We then decide together if it will work. It helps to not purchase items either of us might not use.
01/21/2013
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
He suggests things.
01/21/2013
Rossie Rossie
I don't need his input on what I'm getting, because I'm the one using the toys.
01/21/2013
Icecrystals12 Icecrystals12
I do a lot of toy shopping on my own if it is a toy that is just going to be mine, but if I'm looking for a toy that we will both use, then I definitely need to have input from my partner. We frequently go "window shopping" on here just for fun.
01/21/2013
Terri69 Terri69
It's mostly just me...
01/21/2013
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by novanilla
I always seem to have a hard time getting info out of partners about what toys they want. I especially try to push my current partner to talk with me about what to buy for us since we use our toys together. I don't want to buy things my partner ... More
no not reall they trust my judgement
01/21/2013
Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
We shop together.
01/21/2013
mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
If it's for him, obviously he has a say. But if it's for me or us I usually do most of the shopping. He likes to be involved but doesn't care about having input.
01/21/2013
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Mostly it is just me. Sometimes I will ask for his opinion.
01/21/2013
Rory Rory
I think he's better at picking out what I will like better then me!!
01/21/2013
atryonix atryonix
I pick for me only
01/21/2013
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
I have no lover
01/21/2013
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
We buy for each other.
01/21/2013
Creepellah Creepellah
I do all the toy shopping without input from my partner.
01/21/2013
sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
When I can't decide what to get next, I'll ask him to help choose for me, but for the most part I do all my own shopping. When I know there are certain toys he'd love to use with/on me or watch me us, I make an extra effort to put those at the top of my list though.
01/21/2013
Dustin LaBorde Dustin LaBorde
Me and my partner usually shop together I find it best that way plus I get to see what she likes best. Sometimes she does surprise me with a gift you cant mind that though whoohoo
01/21/2013
joiedejouets joiedejouets
I pick, he gets some input though
01/21/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
Tis is really more my thing than his. I will on occasion ask for his input on lingerie so I purchase something he likes but the toys, their mostly mine. He has discovered things he enjoys as well, the free rings, the inexpensive cages and pillows but that's about it. I wanted to get him a more substantial ring but I'm told to hold off on it. As I said, this is more my thing than his.
01/22/2013
travelnurse travelnurse
I do all of the shopping but I will ask for his input, sometimes at least.
01/22/2013
nikki0668 nikki0668
I do most of my toy shopping myself. When I had a partner, he would help on occasion as to what interested him.
01/22/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
90% of the time we shop together, sometimes I will suprise him with something. I know what he likes so it's usually a good thing!
01/22/2013
falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by novanilla
I always seem to have a hard time getting info out of partners about what toys they want. I especially try to push my current partner to talk with me about what to buy for us since we use our toys together. I don't want to buy things my partner ... More
i might ask him for his opinion, but i do a lot of the decision making.
01/22/2013
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
i do most of it but before i checkout i ask for his input and he is usually down for whatever..
01/27/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by novanilla
I always seem to have a hard time getting info out of partners about what toys they want. I especially try to push my current partner to talk with me about what to buy for us since we use our toys together. I don't want to buy things my partner ... More
We always shop together. It's great foreplay.
01/27/2013
higs higs
I do it all alone, I wish she'd give me more input, but she likes to be surprised
01/27/2013
nova2014 nova2014
My partner doesn't know about Eden so he doesn't give input. He'll probably know when I give him our anniversary gift but even when he knows he probably won't give his input
02/03/2013
KayJay KayJay
I do most of it. He makes suggestions
02/03/2013
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