I always seem to have a hard time getting info out of partners about what toys they want. I especially try to push my current partner to talk with me about what to buy for us since we use our toys together. I don't want to buy things my partner is not interested in. Whenever I ask though, I don't get straight answers, or I'm told "I don't know," "you pick," and that sort of thing. I know it's not disinterest, because we both are enthusiastic about purchasing new things. It's just always left up to me on what to purchase! Do other people have similar situations?