He usually smacks me really hard! Most of the time, I'm really into it. But, he isn't always good at reading my mood when we're not having sex at the moment.
Last night, I was in a pissy mood, our bathroom is under a forced remodel project, due to a leaking toilet and the entire floor being removed. Then our dishwasher, which has been giving us problems for months, finally died. And, he waited too long to fix the faucet in the kitchen and I KNOW we have mold under the cabinet, but my allergies are so bad, I'm afraid to get under there and clean it out myself.
So, I'm doing the freakin' dishes by hand last night (after having to empty the filthy dishwasher, because of course we realized it was finally completely broken when it was FULL) and he just hauls off and smacks me like I'm gonna like it. I screamed at him! Then I swore at him. I usually don't ask much of men in terms of "knowing what I'm thinking" but shit, it was freakin' obvious I was in a terrible mood. I'd also had a headache for a week or more and had a lot of things on my mind. Why can't he read me more
easily when someone who didn't even know me would say, "Stay away from that bitch. She's in a bad mood, dude!"