Ever had sex when you didnt want too?

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Ever had sex when you didnt want too?

Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
No like being forced but your partner wanted to have sex, but you wasnt in the mood. And you still did it?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
101  (83%)
No
11  (9%)
I dont do anything unless I'm in the mood
9  (7%)
Total votes: 121
Poll is closed
06/11/2011
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That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
Used to years ago. Now I don't.
06/11/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nessa
No like being forced but your partner wanted to have sex, but you wasnt in the mood. And you still did it?
Sometimes you do that for your partner even if you aren't totally in the mood..besides usually I end up having a great time!
06/11/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Yes, of course. Sometimes when you are in a long term relationship, you have to give up a Mercy Fuck or a Pity Blow Job once in a while. I know My Man does it as well. It's give and take.

In the event that I really didn't want to, or was ill, of course I'm going to say no, and give him a rain check. But, often, like Airen, I get in the mood if it's just a "Nah, I don't feel like it." time. (Not that I have those all that often.)
06/11/2011
Sir Sir
Yeah, to make my ex happy. I do not do that any longer.
06/11/2011
married with children married with children
we all have, it is part of a relationship. its give and take.
06/11/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Yes... There are those days when I'm tired and ready to sleep, but my fiance is ready to go. He's gotta take it when he can get it sometimes, being an air force man. I don't mind sacrificing an hour from my sleep schedule to make love. I just don't always like being half asleep during sex. It isn't too often anymore since he is at the base near our home now, but it still happens every now and then.
06/11/2011
Liz2 Liz2
Yes I do! II know I have the stronger sex drive in our relationship and there are times he is not in the mood but never says, No.
I do the same for him but I may cheat a little and just give him a BJ, but I usually get into it anyway.
06/11/2011
ss143 ss143
I don't do anything that I don't want to however that doesn't mean I wont get into the mood to please him
06/11/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
I have in the past, but not anymore.
06/11/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Honestly, no. I'm always in the mood for sex. LOL
06/11/2011
ID42 ID42
I think for the most part, almost every person has or will at some point. I have and I know my husband has.
06/11/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
One time, but we didn't end up finishing. My period was about to start and I had cramps. My boyfriend could tell I wasn't very into it though and that bothered him so we ended up stopping. There have been a few times when he was really tired and just wanted to go to sleep but let me go on top anyways.
06/11/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I don't think that has ever happened to me but I know the wife has done it a few times. If I could I would have sex everyday.
06/11/2011
Inwitari Inwitari
I have a few times, just part of being in a relationship and compromise.
06/11/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nessa
No like being forced but your partner wanted to have sex, but you wasnt in the mood. And you still did it?
We have both been "convinced" by the other over 24 years together.
06/11/2011
iveversxe iveversxe
I'm easily excitable, so I don't think I've ever said, "No," to my boyfriend. However, there are times where he's not in the mood when I am, and it's frustrating on my end. Thank goodness for toys. ( :
06/11/2011
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Sometimes you do that for your partner even if you aren't totally in the mood..besides usually I end up having a great time!
Yes, same here. Although if I'm really not in the mood, we don't. But if it's just that I hadn't really been thinking about it, or I'm a little tired, or some tiny thing like that, then I try to go ahead, and I end up having a good time. He does the same for me, and it means a lot to me when he does it. After those times we always make sure to thank the other one, because we know it was a favor done out of love.
06/11/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Sometimes you do that for your partner even if you aren't totally in the mood..besides usually I end up having a great time!
Yeah same here.

He usually ends up making it fun either way. used to do it and felt really bad about it in the past but now I will not do it if I REALLY don't want to. Sometimes I'm not in the mood but once we start and the juices start flowing my mood is in.
06/12/2011
zeebot zeebot
Not when I really didn't want to, but when I wasn't really interested but wasn't against it - sure.
06/12/2011
ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
If I really don't want to, I will say no. Sometimes I am not in the mood though and will try anyways. Naturally sometimes it works out and I get into the mood, and occasionally I'm just very tired. Although that is a rare occasion for me.
06/12/2011
K101 K101
I've done it while not being in the mood, but always made it clear that I wasn't in the mood, but with past partners it was easier to spend the 4 minutes just to get them to leave me alone. Sounds terrible, but I wasn't as smart back then. Now, with my current partner I sometimes will have a little stress and it can hinder my 'being in the mood' but he always works hard to make sure I do get turned on & if I just can't and just am not in the mood he leaves it at that. He's really careful not to pressure me. He's fully aware of my past & he doesn't want to be that kind of person. It's rare that I'm not in the mood unless i'm in pain of some kind though & I'm usually always willing to still give it IF i'm just tired or something that's no big deal. It works out well for us.
06/12/2011
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I absolutely have done this before. I've got a pretty high sex drive, and I usually do want it. But, when I'm sick I do admit I don't usually want to be touched. My husband absolutely can have me whenever he likes, but if I'm sick I'm not going to get off - so I just do whatever he wants me to do, or let him use me as he sees fit.

I enjoy this. It's just our dynamic.
06/20/2011
AngelicaU AngelicaU
There have been times where I really didn't want to have sex because I wasn't at all in the mood but I kept kinda messing around and eventually got into the mood but I don't think that would count as doing it and not wanting to since I did eventually want to.
06/20/2011
big b big b
yes
06/23/2011
sarki sarki
No I only have sex when in the mood
06/23/2011
lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
yep
06/25/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
If I'm with the right person, they can get my in the mood very easily at anytime!
And I don't do anything I really don't want to do. I'm stubborn.
06/25/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Nessa
No like being forced but your partner wanted to have sex, but you wasnt in the mood. And you still did it?
...and I just realized I already answered this question!
06/25/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
I have had sex when I wasn't fully in the mood, by my partner at the time was able to make it so that I enjoyed it and ended up having as much fun as if I had been in the mood to begin with.
06/25/2011
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Unique posters: 71