Ever wait 'till your parner goes to bed and then masterbate?

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Ever wait 'till your parner goes to bed and then masterbate?

bobowaxer bobowaxer
My ex-girlfriend and I lived together for four years and sex with her was some of the best I've ever had. Still, there were times when I waited for her to go to bed, so I could pleasure myself...Am I on an island on this one?
03/03/2011
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toxie m toxie m
I don't wait until he falls asleep, I'll generally just do it while we're in bed dozing. It takes almost 20 mins so I know he'll probably fall asleep before I'm done anyway, hah. I'm not sure about him though.. maybe? Clearly if he does it, I'm asleep already and have no idea. He sometimes masturbates in the morning before I wake up, though (or before he THINKS I've woken up, anyway). I don't mind, I like to watch/listen to him anyway so I just lay back and enjoy the show.
03/03/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
He always goes to bed after me, so no.
03/03/2011
Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
She goes to bed early so I take matters into my own hands.
03/03/2011
soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
No, but when I used to live with my boyfriend I would sometimes wake up to him masturbating in the morning. I would just laugh and go back to sleep.
03/04/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
No... he'd be irritated if he woke up and found out I was having fun without him!
03/04/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Timely question - going down that road tonight!
03/04/2011
bobowaxer bobowaxer
Quote:
Originally posted by soyandapplecrisp
No, but when I used to live with my boyfriend I would sometimes wake up to him masturbating in the morning. I would just laugh and go back to sleep.
Laugh and go to sleep?...Ouch!
03/04/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I've attempted it once or twice, but he usually will ask me if I'm masturbating and "you aren't done yet?" and then I'll feel awkward and annoyed at that. And then just go to bed frustrated without orgasm.
He doesn't. 100% certain of that one. We've talked about waking up to sexual acts on each other, but we haven't done that so.. meh! (One or the other person is always way too tired for anything!)
03/04/2011
bobowaxer bobowaxer
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Timely question - going down that road tonight!
Enjoy the ride!
03/04/2011
indiglo indiglo
I've never done that, at least not that I can remember. LOL
03/04/2011
al16 al16
Honestly, I think it's normal(if you're doing it for you're own pleasure/fun not because it's the only time you had a desire to), it shows how comfortable you are with a partner.
03/08/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I go to bed after my bf all the time. I am more productive at night for school where as he needs to get up early so goes to bed early.

I usually masterbate when he isn't home. If I do masterbate while he is home, it is often bcs he prompted me to do it.

I do know that my guy masterbates in the morning. He does it every other morning. It's fine as long as he can satisfy me later in the day too .
03/08/2011
NaturalWoman NaturalWoman
Never done it and never thought of doing it.
03/08/2011
(Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
My partner has to get up before dawn, but I work from home. I'm a night-owl and prefer to stay up. Sometimes he's too tired for sex, or sometimes I don't feel completely "done."

Either case, I tend to masturbate before bed. I have chronic insomnia, so it helps me relax.

We are in a D/s thing, so I always tell him when I do. He sleeps like a rock, so I can honestly take a small quiet vibrator or just manually masturbate right next to him and if he wakes up, we have sex. If not, I am satisfied and I know he'll be ready for me when he gets off work.

Unless it was a D/s situation, I would NEVER be able to handle someone who was upset by my self-loving. It's a physical need like eating. People can be really irrational, and I mean both men and women, about this topic.
03/11/2011
beautiful beautiful
I've done it if we were in an argument with each other, otherwise no I don't.
03/22/2011
KsPlaything KsPlaything
It's happened....
03/27/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
Every night. She's busy with her thesis and honestly needs all the sleep she can get. We can fuck all the time after she graduates in May.
03/27/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
There have been times that he's fallen asleep before me and I got up and masturbated, lol...
03/27/2011
Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
It's not really a matter of waiting until she goes to bed. I don't actually do it much anymore, but she usually goes to bed 2-3 hours before me so if I get the urge, that is when I take care of it most of the time.
03/27/2011
mandiegk mandiegk
Sometimes it happens..we both get tired sometimes.
03/27/2011
aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
Quote:
Originally posted by bobowaxer
My ex-girlfriend and I lived together for four years and sex with her was some of the best I've ever had. Still, there were times when I waited for her to go to bed, so I could pleasure myself...Am I on an island on this one?
sometimes, but it's not cuz i want to. just bordem mostly.
03/29/2011
ac0313 ac0313
With my current SO, I have never done this and do not expect this will ever happen. We both have very high sex drives and enjoy each other tremendously. With my prior, this was a very common occurance...
03/30/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
No, unless he falls asleep because he finished. Usually when I play with myself he joins in and helps.
03/31/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
Quote:
Originally posted by soyandapplecrisp
No, but when I used to live with my boyfriend I would sometimes wake up to him masturbating in the morning. I would just laugh and go back to sleep.
Thats always kinda awkward. Walked in on my man masterbating once because something was wrong with me (sick, period, idk). I just walked out, he was on the floor and everything. Lol, it was funny.
03/31/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
yes have done it
04/01/2011
CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by bobowaxer
My ex-girlfriend and I lived together for four years and sex with her was some of the best I've ever had. Still, there were times when I waited for her to go to bed, so I could pleasure myself...Am I on an island on this one?
LOL I have been doing that forever
04/11/2011
K101 K101
No. I don't really do anything by myself when it comes to that. Unless I'm trying to get him to take a hint. Lol. It usually works, but once he was just not getting it. I usually on have to pretend I'm working alone & then he joins! Lol.
04/12/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I can't say, I wait for him to go to bed and then masturbate but if he is asleep, if I have the need I will masturbate. If he really wakes up, he will join me.
But if I wake up during the night as he is masturbating, most times I do nothing but wait for his orgasm, pretending to be asleep.
04/12/2011
Rossie Rossie
My husband's an early sleeper. I'll usually have some fun with my toys and then wake him up to the real deal.
Funny things is, I've never seen him masturbate himself.
04/12/2011
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