Has your relationship turned from hot to ice cold after year of being together?

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Has your relationship turned from hot to ice cold after year of being together?

angelkisses angelkisses
I want to know if it is just me or do other people feel that way also..
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
It's hot as when we first got together!
darthkitt3n , Ansley , toxie m , Ryuson , married with children , SiNn , indiglo , IslandGoddess , ss143 , ToyGurl , daveysgirl , leanright69 , EvilHomer , potstickers , Zandrock , Alyxx
16  (59%)
It's cooled after a while...But I still love him / her!
ColorMeCute , deadpoet , froggiemoma , LaLaLouise , Marziba , Lucky21 , Lummox , jr2012
8  (30%)
We have our moments.
extrafun , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
2  (7%)
Ice cold thank god for porn and vibrators!
Istanbull
1  (4%)
Total votes: 27
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08/10/2011
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toxie m toxie m
My current relationship is still good to go, but often in the past things had taken a turn for the chilly by 1 year. It depends on the relationship.
08/10/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
We've been together for 2.5 years and still hot!
08/10/2011
deadpoet deadpoet
we've been together almost 7 years and about 2 years in, it went a little cold, but we have our moments when it is great.
08/10/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
Still pretty hot!
08/10/2011
married with children married with children
relationships age over the years. It is up to you to keep it from spoiling. We have been together for 18 years.
08/11/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by angelkisses
I want to know if it is just me or do other people feel that way also..
it hasnt changed and we been together over 8 yrs
08/11/2011
indiglo indiglo
Still pretty darn hot here too!
08/11/2011
LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
Been with my sweetie for a year and a half, living together for about 2 months so far. Things really have been cooling down. Sex is less often, and sometimes less passionate. Complimenting me less, etc. But I've been talking to him about it lately and things are really looking up. There isn't enough positive stuff to say about communicating with your partner about the things that bother you! For example, we were in bed last night, kind of tired, no intention of having sex. Started discussing our sex life and fears and desires and ideas and so forth, came up with a couple of ideas of things to try in the near future (when a couple of new play things come in!). And that talking led to kissing, which led to some of the best sex we've had in a long time. The closeness of opening up and getting things off our chests is a pretty effective aphrodisiac. Every couple has their ups and downs, what's important is that you confront it with a level head and understanding, not finger-pointing and "You don't do this anymore!" and especially no "You're starting to behave like my ex!"
08/12/2011
IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
My "BooBoo" (thats what he calls me) and i have been together 3years and our sex life is great. I dont know if our ages have anything to do with it, because we're both still pretty young im 19 and he is 20. But our sex life is perfectly fine i cant really complain about anything, we are thinking about moving in together when he gets his apartment or im most likely going to be over there often, i hope that doesnt change anything. We usually have sex once or twice a week.
08/12/2011
Marziba Marziba
Our relationship hit a major road block when his parents found out we were having sex and decided to start interfering. After that, sex went from 6-10 times a week (hooooly crap) to maybe twice, we didn't talk as much or for as long, and we didn't kiss, cuddle, or see each other as much. It went from hot to luke-warm, but it's on the way back!
08/16/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
It's cooled off for sure. But there are extenuating circumstances.
08/16/2011
Ansley Ansley
Oh, I guess I failed to mention that we've known each other for fifteen years and have been together for twelve. It's hotter and more intimate than ever before.
08/16/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
I know that after two years of being together, my newly wed husband (boyfriend, at the time) and I had gone downhill. We needed our space and that was very apparent. We stopped living together but stayed together and things were a lot better. Two years later we got married and things are just as hot as they have ever been!
08/16/2011
daveysgirl daveysgirl
26years later still hot! we had some downs but we manage.
08/17/2011
leanright69 leanright69
Is hot. But it has changed. The newness of the sex was gone after a couple of years, but as time went by the quality has increased. It takes work to keep it exciting. I am the sex nerd of the couple so I am constantly looking for new and exciting toys and practices that inhance the limited time we have. Five kids at home and married 26 years. Sex is good, but looking for better and hoping for the best.
08/17/2011
Zandrock Zandrock
hot hot hot
10/17/2012
jr2012 jr2012
it's funny, because it was super hot in the beginning. It has since cooled (but not ice cold, mercifully!). At the same time, the tradeoff between awesome sex for the great overall relationship has been totally worth it.
10/17/2012
Alyxx Alyxx
My current relationship is still just as hot as it was when it started almost 3 years ago, but my relationship with my ex was definitely ice cold by about three or four years in.
10/17/2012
Istanbull Istanbull
Like anyone's suprised that my user name is the only one by that check.
10/21/2012
Total posts: 20
Unique posters: 20