I have a close friend who called me last night in an absolute panic. The guy she is with sat on her, held her down and put a bag over her mouth and nose to keep her from leaving during a vicious fight. I let her crash at my house and told her she needed some help. She agrees, but I know she will go back after he cries and says he is so sorry, was just the alcohol-so frustrating. Anyone else in this situation? How have you helped? If in a relationship, what was your catalyst? What made you leave?