If he/she cheated, would you stay with them?

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If he/she cheated, would you stay with them?

TWE112 TWE112
If your significant other cheated on you would/could you stay with them? It would most likely depend on the situation for me. What do you guys think? Second chances worth it?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
yes I would
5  (15%)
Not a chance
22  (65%)
Other?
7  (21%)
Total votes: 34
Poll is closed
09/02/2012
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sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Not a chance. The trust would be destroyed.
09/02/2012
lovebites lovebites
no
09/02/2012
damnbul12 damnbul12
I can forgive
09/02/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
There are a lot of variables that would go into that decision.
09/02/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by TWE112
If your significant other cheated on you would/could you stay with them? It would most likely depend on the situation for me. What do you guys think? Second chances worth it?
Depends on what happened.
09/02/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
I can forgive, but I can't forget. I would probably look at that person differently after something like that. I'm not attracted to cheaters. Loyalty is a turn on for me.
09/03/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
No way.
09/03/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
At one time I would have said no way I'd stay. Now after 23 years its more complicated - the good news is that we are more in love than ever, so it's not a problem I will have to deal with.
09/03/2012
Ganconagh Ganconagh
Been there...no way
09/03/2012
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
It's easy to say no but probably not.
09/03/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
Not a chance
09/04/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by TWE112
If your significant other cheated on you would/could you stay with them? It would most likely depend on the situation for me. What do you guys think? Second chances worth it?
I would probably, depend on the situation.
09/04/2012
anonkitty anonkitty
Out the door. Wouldn't even look back.
09/04/2012
mandiegk mandiegk
Quote:
Originally posted by sexxxkitten
Not a chance. The trust would be destroyed.
Definitely this. I couldn't stay with someone when I am questioning the veracity of everything he is saying.
09/04/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Been there and done that, I tried to make it work because I didn't picture my life mid 20s married a year and getting a divorce. It was really hard for me to even try forgiving just for him to turn around and do it again. So now my answer would be NO you cheat on me I am done!
09/05/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
I highly doubt it. I've already been there, and I forgave, more than I should have and NOTHING got better. Last I heard, the loser got married and was cheating on his wife. Thanks to him, I struggle with trust issues. I think I am finally getting better though. I don't know, just recalling the hurt when I found out, I just don't know if I could ever forgive someone again and take a chance. I just pray that my fiance is one of the good ones and never hurts me. I hate that pain.
09/05/2012
Rey Rey
nope.
09/05/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
No way.
09/05/2012
amplified to rock amplified to rock
It really depends. My dude and I have been together for a decade - that's not something that can be thrown away lightly. If it led to some serious conversations about our expectations and what each of us are/are not getting out of our relationship, I think it could still work.

On the other hand, if he was having an emotional relationship with another woman - I would FLIP. I'm not a jealous person, but I know I'm emotionally high-maintenance.
09/09/2012
SavingMyself SavingMyself
If it was a one time thing AND he told me immediately, I would consider staying with him. If it was more than once and he lied about it, I would end things.
09/09/2012
nova2014 nova2014
no i wouldn't, i wouldn't be able to trust him ever again and the relationship would be ruined at that point
01/29/2013
Total posts: 22
Unique posters: 22