How do you keep the flame alive?

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How do you keep the flame alive?

Seharra Seharra
I've been dating my boyfriend for more than 4 years now, and for two of those years I've been in college... more than a few hours away from him. We've done the whole phone sex dealio, and that was just too weird because I have a roommate. What do you guys prefer to do when you can't be with your longtime partners?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
phone sex
12
rack up the mileage on your car
20
film and send videos
9
live video shows
5
order and ship toys to them
17
sending naughty photos
23
writing erotic fantasies for them
10
other (explain it in the comments!)
7
Total votes: 103 (44 voters)
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04/09/2011
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Rod Martini Rod Martini
Quote:
Originally posted by Seharra
I've been dating my boyfriend for more than 4 years now, and for two of those years I've been in college... more than a few hours away from him. We've done the whole phone sex dealio, and that was just too weird because I have a roommate. ...
I spent some time over seas while my girlfriend was here in America and it was not easy. Usually we would write eachother sexy emails or skype sex. But the best was when we would have a few minutes alone and we could film a nasty video and email it. Just be very, very careful about filming yourself. You have to trust the person you're sending it to and you have to delete it from your camera asap. Wouldn't want any celebrity sex tapes to leak to the press if you know what I mean.
04/09/2011
indiglo indiglo
I voted all of the above. Skype is a very useful tool. (I also totally agree with Randy, be very careful about filming yourself - you wouldn't want that to come back to haunt you.)
04/09/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
I voted all of the above. Skype is a very useful tool. (I also totally agree with Randy, be very careful about filming yourself - you wouldn't want that to come back to haunt you.)
I agree, I love using Skype when we can't be together.
04/09/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
Skype is great for those long time apart.
04/10/2011
Seharra Seharra
Haha, sounds like I'm getting skype then. Thanks!
04/10/2011
sexygoddess sexygoddess
I would use skype when my boyfriend and I were long distance.
04/11/2011
~Brittany~ ~Brittany~
Ill drive anywhere to be with him!
04/11/2011
Mommy2 Mommy2
Dirty pictures of course!
04/11/2011
StephieBoo02 StephieBoo02
I like trying new things, products, foods, etc with him for something new and something that's new for both of us for a new experience!
04/15/2011
K101 K101
I didn't really know how to vote on this one because we've never been apart for too long except once when I went on vacation alone, but that was only once. The rest of the time, we always go together on our trips to Panama, etc. Other than that, I can't say there's been any more than 1 day in 5 years that we've been apart! Lol. That's so hard to believe that we've only spent a week apart in 5 years, but it's worked out well. I'd have to get a little creative if we were apart because I would want more than phone sex! Lol. I have no idea what I'd do. I guess I'd be saving every penny! Lol. That would be hard with gas prices though.
04/17/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I travel a lot and write a lot of intimate fantasies. She likes them - but I think less than I like writing them!
04/18/2011
mandiegk mandiegk
I met my boyfriend while I was living abroad, and now that we are apart we use skype all the time.
04/18/2011
purplekidney purplekidney
She: He'd come down to my dorm at the end of every week and stay the night, then we'd drive back up to our hometown the next day.
04/18/2011
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Use my Clone a willy clone!
10/02/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Seharra
I've been dating my boyfriend for more than 4 years now, and for two of those years I've been in college... more than a few hours away from him. We've done the whole phone sex dealio, and that was just too weird because I have a roommate. ...
All of the above!
10/08/2012
Total posts: 16
Unique posters: 15