How do you keep your sex life interesting when in a long term relationship?

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How do you keep your sex life interesting when in a long term relationship?

lukymami lukymami
This question is for those who are in long term relationships and want ideas for how to keep things fun and interesting over the years.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
adding new toys
rom323 , TheirPet , Taylor , JG24FanUK , ejrbrndps , OhMy! , Rossie , Gunsmoke , Terri69 , Sj83 , gsfanatic
11
adding new positions
JG24FanUK , ejrbrndps , OhMy! , Rossie , Gunsmoke , deltalima , hot lil momma , Terri69 , Sj83 , gsfanatic
10
adding new people
other......please let us know
Taylor , JG24FanUK , deltalima , Mitzuki , gsfanatic
5
Total votes: 26 (14 voters)
Poll is closed
06/11/2012
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rom323 rom323
We use lots of toys. We have everything from a jetaime machine to bullet vibrators, swings, lingerie, ect.

Nothing is off limits for us except adding another person so i am told.
06/11/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
We're always coming up with new toys and new positions. We're very talkative. Whenever we have sex we talk about what we liked/didn't like and what we might be curious about. It keeps things interesting.
06/11/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
What a great question. I am currently trying to figure this one out for myself as well. I'm in a long relationship and recently I've been trying to figure out how to spice things up because it has not been as passionate as it use to be.

Well first we decided to try new positions and experiment with anal. We also bought a vibrator and have been having some fun with that. However it did not quite solve everything. So my BEST ADVICE and what seems to be working better for us is to just communicate more with your partner. Tell them how you've been feeling and reminisce on the past to maybe rekindle that spark that burned so brightly and gave you all of that passion. Honestly for me, just letting my partner know how I feel and hearing how she felt allowed us to work on improving our sexual relationship. Right now as we are in the middle of improving it I can say I couldn't be any happier and am very excited to be with her and experience all the wonders of sex.
06/11/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by JG24FanUK
What a great question. I am currently trying to figure this one out for myself as well. I'm in a long relationship and recently I've been trying to figure out how to spice things up because it has not been as passionate as it use to be. ...
Thanks for sharing how you are making things better. At nearly 58 I marvel at people as young as you - still needing and working on making things better. I thought that was just for us old guys!

Congratulations and keep growing!
06/12/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by lukymami
This question is for those who are in long term relationships and want ideas for how to keep things fun and interesting over the years.
Lingerie helps and changing places too!
06/12/2012
Sj83 Sj83
Quote:
Originally posted by lukymami
This question is for those who are in long term relationships and want ideas for how to keep things fun and interesting over the years.
Both of those
06/15/2012
Mitzuki Mitzuki
I've been trying to figure that out. My partner and I have been together for almost 4 years now, and it seems that he's all but lost his drive. I've tried everything I could think of to spice things up, I was even willing to try some things he wanted that I was unsure about.


I will be watching this thread for a while!
06/15/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Usually new toys and positions, sometimes we change up how we do foreplay
06/15/2012
Total posts: 9
Unique posters: 9