I have a boyfriend of three years and I really want to work on being loyal.
I've tried "spicing it up" but that doesn't seem to help. I think it might
be because the only ways I can get off is from the excitement of being with someone new or doing something I'm not supposed to do. Maybe that's my problem? I feel like it is because my and my boyfriend have been long distance for the past year (been dating for 3 years) and every time he comes to visit it's all like new again. I can't seem to figure it out but I wish I could because I constantly have friendships and other relationships ruined by this "sex addiction" if that's what you want to call it.
He even wants me to go see a psychologist but I haven't gotten around to it yet. -_-