My boyfriend can be pretty sensitive, even though he's a little nervous to try new things. It honestly frustrates me sometimes that when I'm using a toy on myself and want him to kiss me and play with my nipples and stuff he does so somewhat lazily, like it's a chore. It actually kind of kills it for me. And it makes me really sad, almost enough to cry, because when we were first together, I had more intense orgasms using my toy with him helping than I ever had before. And nowadays it's better when I'm by myself. I once made a joke when I wanted him to come to bed and he was watching tv or something, I held up a vibrator and JOKINGLY said, "Fine, I don't need you, I have this!" and he took it really personally. So I just wait until he's at work to masturbate.