We haven't had sex since Sunday but there isn't anything wrong or ill in our relationship or our interest in each other. Just, try as we may it didn't happen in those 72 hours. It's ok, tonight is date night and that's a guaranteed good time in the sack.
Months, but it's because I'm no longer in a relationship. But honestly it could be a while for some people whose relationships are just fine. Deployment, business trips, pregnancy, recovery from illness/surgery, etc. are all legit reasons not to have sex but the relationship be better than ever.
You are right - we've been at this almost 22 years and both know it takes some effort. She blew me off last night - too tired - but she got up a few minutes early for a quickie this morning. Nice warm up for a HOT weekend - which is when we have sex most often.
It has been probably two weeks now. Between her period with a UTI, and being on a mini vacation, and me being home only two days a week, we don't have too much time together. We just got the Hitachi, so when I get home on Sunday night, I hope I can coax her into bed for a "message"