How open are you with your partner with your sexual preferences?

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How open are you with your partner with your sexual preferences?

JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
At first I was more reserved with my preferences, but since I've started to be more vocal I feel like our sex lives have gotten alot better. She is still a bit "shy", but I feel that if we learn each others bodies then we will both enjoy our time together.
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Never really mention it
I'll say a few things to help (him/her) along
7  (10%)
I'll tell (him/her) how I want it or what can be done that I'll like
3  (4%)
We both communicate to each other when we would like something.
59  (86%)
Total votes: 69
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04/01/2012
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js250 js250
Our sexual communication has gone way up since we discovered our love of toys and experimenting with them. Watching porn helped helped ease into the communications level, we can and do tell each other everything that we want, fantasies and how things feel, in great detail.
04/01/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Things are getting better - we're both getting better at verbalizing what we'd like.
04/01/2012
Rossie Rossie
We communicate, but it's usually me telling him what I want, my husband's not that picky.
04/01/2012
quinceykay quinceykay
We usually tend to figure it out along the way, but if there's something in particular that I really like or don't like, I'll say so.
04/01/2012
Gracie Gracie
You both have to be honest or things get stale.
04/01/2012
spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
We are open about everything.
04/01/2012
jmex83 jmex83
Quote:
Originally posted by JG24FanUK
At first I was more reserved with my preferences, but since I've started to be more vocal I feel like our sex lives have gotten alot better. She is still a bit "shy", but I feel that if we learn each others bodies then we will both ...
me and my wife have been really good about opening up to each other since we started hanging out on eden. We have realized that there is a lot that both of us want out of our sex lives and know that we have to keep things spiced up, so we have been trying to be more vocal with each other.
04/01/2012
Melan!e Melan!e
I have always been really open and my partner told me that he really appreciates that. We both have always been very open about what we want and it has brought us much closer I think.
04/01/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
We're fairly open, but things are a bit awkward sometimes still.
04/01/2012
funluvinmama funluvinmama
I have in the past mention things I want to do or try but he has excuses why we can't. Now I don't bother, there is no point in telling him anything.
04/01/2012
indiglo indiglo
We have learned some really great communication techniques that allow us both to express things we'd like to try or not try. Being able to talk so openly and freely makes us feel a lot closer to each other.

We also understand that neither of us needs to feel obligated or compelled to try it if we really don't want to - but so far, that hasn't happened since we both are pretty open and definitely want to please each other in that department.
04/01/2012
dragonn dragonn
Quote:
Originally posted by Melan!e
I have always been really open and my partner told me that he really appreciates that. We both have always been very open about what we want and it has brought us much closer I think.
Same here. It's great.
04/02/2012
Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
im normally shy, but i open up
04/02/2012
ValerieRayne ValerieRayne
Quote:
Originally posted by funluvinmama
I have in the past mention things I want to do or try but he has excuses why we can't. Now I don't bother, there is no point in telling him anything.
I know how you feel on this one
04/03/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
We communicate very much about what we like/dislike.
04/03/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
We try to be a little subtle at times to be teasing. We rarely say what we want without any pretense.
04/03/2012
curious kitten curious kitten
The longer you are together, the automatic and natural it becomes; till you both know exactly what the other wants without words.
04/03/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
It's a work in progress. I'm trying to help him get more vocal about his wants, but it's hard when all he wants to do is make me happy. Any suggestions?
04/04/2012
married with children married with children
I am very open about everything, she tends to be on the shy side. Not sure why she is.
04/04/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
I am very open about everything, she tends to be on the shy side. Not sure why she is.
I can relate. I don't know why my girlfriend is still shy. We know each other so well that I'd think she'd be comfortable around me with everything.
04/04/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
When i am with someone I tend to share it all it makes it better
04/04/2012
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
we find we are both pretty shy, took a while to speak up, but we are getting better
04/12/2012
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I'm always slow to speak up at the beginning of a relationship but after I really get to know the person we tend to find out everything about each other in a sexual way or when something comes up it is mentioned right away. It is much more enjoyable for you and your partner when communication is open
04/12/2012
dragonn dragonn
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Things are getting better - we're both getting better at verbalizing what we'd like.
It does take time. We've changed over time.
04/15/2012
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
One thing that my girlfriend and I pride ourselves in is our ability to talk about sex and what we want and expect from the other. Keeping communication open about and during sex has made our relationship stronger.
05/08/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by JG24FanUK
At first I was more reserved with my preferences, but since I've started to be more vocal I feel like our sex lives have gotten alot better. She is still a bit "shy", but I feel that if we learn each others bodies then we will both ...
We are pretty open.
05/08/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Fully open, and both of us like learning new tricks to make the other happy
05/15/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by JG24FanUK
At first I was more reserved with my preferences, but since I've started to be more vocal I feel like our sex lives have gotten alot better. She is still a bit "shy", but I feel that if we learn each others bodies then we will both ...
We both communicate.
05/16/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm becoming more open.
05/16/2012
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