How secret is your past?

Contributor: Nando Nando
100% open.
05/10/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Does your current partner know everything about your past sexual/ emotional relationships?
We keep a few things from each other.
05/10/2011
Contributor: Rachel Nunez Rachel Nunez
we share pretty much everything. It's not like 100% of it is disclosed tho
05/11/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
My husband has been my only partner, there wasnt much for me to discuss, however my husband does know all about my past and I know petty much all about my husband previous encounters. I know how many partners he's had and that he's gotten himself checked after each partner (he does that for himself), and he's clean. *cheesy smile*. Emotionally, he doesnt really like to talk about his past so I try not to talk about it. I dont believe in secrets.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
Some things are better not known. I don't want to know about her past either. We only got it from each other in a nuthshell and that's enough.
05/22/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
I've shared just about everything I think lol
05/22/2011
Contributor: ParisLove ParisLove
My man knows it all
09/10/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
We have shared pretty much everything, but there are things that are too private and painful for me to talk about. Most of that is not relationship related, but the baggage following.
09/10/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I do not feel as if everything I did I have to tell him. I am not going to go into details about them, nor do I want him to. Somethings are left better to yourself. If it was important I would tell him. We are pretty open to each other, however there are things I have experienced that I do not tell him the details about.
09/12/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Does your current partner know everything about your past sexual/ emotional relationships?
Totally disclosed and in exacting detail for every encounter we have ever had before and durring us. We both like to hear the stories about each others prior escapeds.
01/04/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Does your current partner know everything about your past sexual/ emotional relationships?
What he has asked, I tell. I have nothing to hide anyways.
01/04/2012
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
I'm an open book, for the most part.
01/04/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I've shared everything from my past with my partner, mainly because I don't like secrets... Also, one someone knows about my past experiences, they understand how I am today a lot better.
01/04/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Nando
100% open.
Nothing more to add here!!
01/04/2012
Contributor: Aberrant Aberrant
I've only had one sexual partner, so it makes total honesty easier. I still have trouble talking about my desires sometimes though, because I am shy about it. I try to be completely honest about everything though, even stuff I don't enjoy talking about. It seems fair, and I would like my partner to do the same.

I don't think I would enjoy hearing about how my partners ex was great in bed or how he missed this thing they used to do, that kind of talk I would rather not have shared.
01/06/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
We both know each other's pasts in high detail. We're pretty intertwined, to say the least.
01/08/2012
Contributor: 7Miles 7Miles
We're completely open and honest but some subjects just haven't come up yet.
01/08/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I've shared, he has not. He was apparently pretty wild in college, and admits he's kind of embarrassed by it.

But, I've always been an open book, and any questions he's asked have been answered honestly.
01/08/2012
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
i am open and willing to offer information. some things i guess he'd rather not know (excessive details of our physical or romantic intimacy, etc, nice things he's done for me). It's unnecessary
01/08/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
I have nothing to hide. He knows everything about the things I've done and the people I've been with. And since I've never slept with any other man than him, he doesn't have to worry about that, either.
01/08/2012
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Does your current partner know everything about your past sexual/ emotional relationships?
I have been pretty much open and honest with him but he seems to think he needs to hide things, then when they come out hes all apologetic like its just a big oop's especially last year when i found out he has slept with his female best friend. I was pissed but what could I do it had happened almost 6 years before me met so i couldnt get to mad at him. I was more upset he didnt tell me..
01/09/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
He doesn't want to know about my past because he wants to believe he's the only one. He says it disgusts him to think of me with other men and he doesn't let on too much about being with his ex.
01/10/2012
Contributor: chantal coopette chantal coopette
i have a very few secrets- one i didnt tell him because i dont tell anyone that one. and the other has never come up
01/10/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Depends.

With men who I am with for just sex, no.

With a man who I am emotionally attached too... depends on where we are in the relationship.

I hate it when I spill some of my past with a man, he seems to think I am broken, he looks at me funny forever after, and he thinks I am broken and must be fixed. Well... I wasn't broken five minutes ago!!!
01/18/2012
Contributor: Fallintomyweb Fallintomyweb
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Originally posted by Lady Venus
We discuss our pasts as the subject comes up. If it doesn't come up, no reason to speak of it.
i 100% agree, dont ask dont tell
01/18/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
The most I've ever been able to pry out of Master is that he is divorced from a gold-digging mercenary who lied about who she was from day one, and that his first girlfriend was a busty redhead who wore glasses (like me). I don't even know how old he was when he met his first girlfriend.

He knows about my ex-husband and Mulder, but that's because I tend to run at the mouth and he politely told me to shut up. He feels it's a bit early in our relationship to be discussing such things, so I'm respecting that. (Although telling him the rest of mine will take less than five minutes.)

My thing is that the few guys I've been with have completely and thoroughly shaped my sexual neuroses - which Master is having to deal with. I'm trying to get better, but it's very difficult when all my experiences have been FWB's and a celibate marriage (not to mention the years of unsolicited disgust and rejection from the rest of the male population). I have no idea what sex with love involves.
01/18/2012
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
We don't feel the need to tell each other *everything* we have ever done with every partner, but we share enough. Got to keep a little mystery.
01/18/2012
Contributor: JessicaLea13 JessicaLea13
I have no problem sharing 100% with a partner, I'm very open about my sexual past. My boyfriend however cannot handle the information! I have told him a few things that were really very vanilla & he was upset/jealous/intimida ted so for the sake of our relationship we don't discuss previous sexual partners.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
I kept things to myself that he asked me not to share. He gets curious and asks, but is jealous unnecessarily so he stops. Not like he has any room to talk, but I would rather not know so I don't ask.

Maybe one day, if I thought it was important.
01/19/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
We have hit the high points. I am sure we haven't talked about every little thing, but it isn't a huge secret.
09/19/2012