Ok, so this has been an ongoing problem in our relationship. During the process of intimacy, I feel like my husband rushes things along. It becomes a big turn-off to have to say, often more than once, "slow down!" I have tried expressing my feelings about this when we're not having sex and he keeps saying "I'm not in a rush." It's sooo frustrating when I'm trying to communicate openly and he is in such denial. I literally feel sometimes like he doesn't care about my pleasure and is just trying to "get it over with." It's sad, because the few instances that he's taken his time, it's been wonderful. I don't know how else to tell him that this is important to me. He may be caring and supportive in everyday life, but if our sex life is suffering that's going to affect our relationship in a big way. Oh, and another thing he does that I hate is sucking my nipples. They are super sensitive and I don't like any stimulation there, except maybe light licking. When I was pregnant, they hurt all the time and I had to literally SHOVE him away when he didn't listen to me after I said to leave them alone. I don't know if he had a girlfriend who liked it, so he assumes all women do, but I DON'T and I wish he'd listen to me.