How would you feel finding out....

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How would you feel finding out....

Beck Beck
that your long term partner was married before and after the divorce he slept with the ex wives sister? I know that since they were not married at the time that this does not matter to the relationship so there was no cheating. However I still feel as if there is something wrong with this idea? What do you think?
08/02/2011
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Ansley Ansley
I wouldn't care. I'm sure there are plenty of facts and emotions I was unaware of at that point in his life and it doesn't have any effect on what we're doing.
08/02/2011
Kkay Kkay
I would be a little wary because it seems that it could be deliberately spiteful, and temper is something that is a major turnoff for me.
08/02/2011
JessCee JessCee
I wouldn't care. It had nothing to do with me, lol but I'd still want to hear the story about how this all happened, sounds like it'd be a good one!
08/02/2011
Callisto Callisto
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Originally posted by JessCee
I wouldn't care. It had nothing to do with me, lol but I'd still want to hear the story about how this all happened, sounds like it'd be a good one!
I agree. I also don't have any sisters either. I really think it's probably an isolated incident with lots of back story. He probably doesn't run around sleeping with ex's sisters.
08/02/2011
js250 js250
I would not let it affect the current relationship, however maybe you should talk to each other about it and if there was spite, etc. playing a part in the arrangement, be wary. People do change - base your feelings on your current situation.
08/02/2011
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I wouldn't care since it would be before he was with me.
08/02/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I feel that is his past, not mine. I do not care how many partners my husband had before me, nor do I care who they were or what their marital status was. I am his present and his future.

My husband feels the same way.
08/03/2011
N&M N&M
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
that your long term partner was married before and after the divorce he slept with the ex wives sister? I know that since they were not married at the time that this does not matter to the relationship so there was no cheating. However I still feel ...
Seems odd. How long was the attraction? Did it also lead to some of the problems?
08/03/2011
EJ EJ
I don't think it would be a problem for me. I have issues with lying and deceit, but it doesn't sound like those were the issues in this case.
08/05/2011
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