Not that i would ever cheat but i feel like i understand why some people do it now. My husband has always had a lower sex drive than me and right now its especially now because of a medication he is taking and because he is going to school and working. I understand that he is busy and his meds mess with him but its killing me. Once a week, that pretty much what we are down to, every sunday seems to be the magic night. Its annoying how predictable it is. And on top of that i feel like he doesnt want ME he just wants sex. I miss when he wanted me so bad he would take advantage of me anywhere he could. Sex with our clothes still on in the kitchen, in the living room, in the garage. Now i feel like the only reason he has sex with me is cause he just that horny, i just want to feel wanted and desired. i dont get that feeling from him anymore, and here we land at cheating. i now understand how someone can stumble upon that attention out side of marriage and want it. I could never cheat, i even feel guilty when i have dreams about other people (in the dream i feel guilty) but i could use some attention and for someone to make me feel sexy and desired.
We used to have a great sex life, we were a couple that did it 3 to 5 times a week an now its harldy one time. most of the time the sex is good, but i seems like if i am trying to enjoy it and not rush to the finish he cant hang for too long without finishing. Hes not premature but really can it last more than 15 minutes. Well end venting! thanks to anyone that read this. I cant really talk to anyone else about this so i needed to get it out.