I have a family member who is extremely self centered and self righteous and has made many promises he will not keep. My husband said I would have problems with him and he would not follow through. I said, probably not, but I will give him the benefit of the doubt. The family member did not follow through, ok, but then in retalliation, he has been very derogatory toward my daughter and I, hateful and manipulative with other family member. I was ok with not following through, but NOBODY fucks with my kid!!!Especially when she did nothing to deserve it!!! Instead of finding out about the rest of the issue, my husband walked in from work and said, I told you so and I do not want to hear about it. When it is his issues, he expects me to drop everything and totally baby him.WTF???