I have been with more than one person, but compared to girls my age I know, I'd say I'm around or slightly below average in number of sexual partners. I'm madly in love with the guy I'm with now, and I never fully enjoyed sex until I met him. I thought I was just one of those people who wasn't built for pleasure. But turns out I'm one of those people whose sexual desire is emotionally driven. The sex wasn't as good with previous people because I didn't have the emotional and intellectual connection that I have with my current sweetie. I've always been a self-conscious person, and have let my insecurity and low self-esteem prevent me from feeling comfortable or allowing myself to feel sexy. But my current guy not only tells me that I'm beautiful, he somehow makes me BELIEVE it. Love, affection, respect, and communication have not only made this the best relationship I've ever been in, but also the most sexually satisfying one!