and settled down, how do you feel about your previous sexual experience?
If you are in a long term relationship or otherwise found the one
07/29/2011
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the past is the past. wouldn't change anything
07/29/2011
I guess I wouldn't have minded having some experience with other people, but I wish that I hadn't had experience with the people that I did
07/29/2011
I am married, and my husband has only been with me. I've been with many men (I'm actually a little fuzzy on how many, exactly) and a few women before I met him. After I met him 3 years ago, I never wanted to be with anyone else.
07/30/2011
Me and my husband were both whores back in the day... but I can tell you this, neither of us have ever had a connection with anyone else the way he and I do. Our past made us who we are today and neither of us regret our past. It just made us better lovers for each other.
07/30/2011
I do regret a fair amount of the stuff I've done in my past. So, I voted I wish I would have had fewer partners. I don't sit around regretting it or thinking about it, but if I have to choose, I'd choose less.
07/30/2011
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Well put Brandi Rouxxx.
Originally posted by
Joie de Cherresse
Me and my husband were both whores back in the day... but I can tell you this, neither of us have ever had a connection with anyone else the way he and I do. Our past made us who we are today and neither of us regret our past. It just made us
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Me and my husband were both whores back in the day... but I can tell you this, neither of us have ever had a connection with anyone else the way he and I do. Our past made us who we are today and neither of us regret our past. It just made us better lovers for each other.
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I for one would prefer to have not had to endure quite so much of the unpleasant part. Given that, I do agree "Our past made us who we are today"... and perhaps I'm a better man for it. So it is probably a good thing for many of us, that we cannot go back and change things.
07/30/2011
only my current partner
07/30/2011
More like "the past is the past and it doesn't have anything to do with who I am today."
07/30/2011
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Similar for us, except she had many more partners than me. Although I was married for longer than she has been alive, we fill that the connection we have is stronger and deeper than either of has ever experienced. What our past has given us is a thourough appreciation for each other and an understanding of what the other needs physically, emotionally, mentally, and sexually.
Originally posted by
Joie de Cherresse
Me and my husband were both whores back in the day... but I can tell you this, neither of us have ever had a connection with anyone else the way he and I do. Our past made us who we are today and neither of us regret our past. It just made us
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Me and my husband were both whores back in the day... but I can tell you this, neither of us have ever had a connection with anyone else the way he and I do. Our past made us who we are today and neither of us regret our past. It just made us better lovers for each other.
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07/30/2011
I had a few partners before my husband, and they left a lot to be desired. I am happy to be with my husband, so I don't even think about the past.
07/30/2011
It's only been me and him, and I'm happy with that.
07/30/2011
I've had past relations, and the only reason its a problem is because his ex keeps calling me a whore for it. He doesn't mind, and I don't even remember the others because I'm with my fiance now <3
07/30/2011
I was with one girl before I met my future wife in college. She and I learned together and what an adventure it's been. More than 35 years later we're still together and still finding new ways to please each other. I wouldn't have it any other way. We just connected and the rest is history.
07/30/2011
I've only been with my boyfriend and I wouldn't change that at all
07/30/2011
The past is the past - I am perfectly in sync with my husband in the sex department.
08/01/2011
I was pretty wild for a while. I wish I hadn't gone through that, but oh well...
08/01/2011
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Both my husband and I were pretty wild back then too. I believe it was a good thing for us to have all those crazy experiences when we were young, including short previous marriages for both of us, then settle down as we grow older. I have friends who married the only person they've dated when they're young, never had sex except with their significant other, as they get older they'll start exploiting the outside world for excitements (i.e. extramarital affairs). They'll always end up separating, and their kids are always the victims.
Originally posted by
Ivy Wilde
I was pretty wild for a while. I wish I hadn't gone through that, but oh well...
08/01/2011
I've only had one other partner other than my husband. I wish that he was my only partner, but I have two children by my exhuband. I wouldn't trade that for the world!
08/01/2011
Sexual experience before a relationship and regrets is a bit of a touchy subject for me, because I was sexually abused. A lot of my firsts were taken.
As for consensual partners, though, I regret nothing.
As for consensual partners, though, I regret nothing.
08/01/2011
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I know numbers matter to SOME men and I have a relatively low number. I haven't experimented a lot and I don't exactly know what I like but I think my current man fits me in a sexual nature. Even though we haven't had it yet.. we have the same interests
Originally posted by
Trillian
and settled down, how do you feel about your previous sexual experience?
08/08/2011
The past is the past and I wouldnt' change a thing.
08/08/2011
I have been with more than one person, but compared to girls my age I know, I'd say I'm around or slightly below average in number of sexual partners. I'm madly in love with the guy I'm with now, and I never fully enjoyed sex until I met him. I thought I was just one of those people who wasn't built for pleasure. But turns out I'm one of those people whose sexual desire is emotionally driven. The sex wasn't as good with previous people because I didn't have the emotional and intellectual connection that I have with my current sweetie. I've always been a self-conscious person, and have let my insecurity and low self-esteem prevent me from feeling comfortable or allowing myself to feel sexy. But my current guy not only tells me that I'm beautiful, he somehow makes me BELIEVE it. Love, affection, respect, and communication have not only made this the best relationship I've ever been in, but also the most sexually satisfying one!
08/09/2011
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The past is the past
Originally posted by
Trillian
and settled down, how do you feel about your previous sexual experience?
02/20/2012
We are both virgins to eachother... we haven't ever slept with anyone else... and we both prefer it that way, it gives you a deeper connection that you have never shared with anyone else.
02/20/2012
For good or bad the cumulative experiences I've had, have helped to form me into the man that I am. Not that I was a bad boy but I believe that I am a kinder better man than I was before.
10/15/2012
I'm happy with how many I had. I learned everything I needed to know, and have the confidence I need.
10/15/2012
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The past is just that...The Past.
Originally posted by
Trillian
and settled down, how do you feel about your previous sexual experience?
10/16/2012
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