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Nope, cheating is an act with that person to me. So...if they were masturbating and sending each other pictures. Yes, that is cheating. But just thinking about it or doing it alone...nope.
I totally agree with this. When my guy and I started dating, we had a discussion about this. He asked if it was okay by me if he still masturbated and swapped pics back and forth with other girls...FUCK NO! He argued meekly that it was just like porn, but it isn't. I'm glad you see it the way I do. Anyway, my guy's best friend (the loser I've complained about) will do this, so that's why my guy asked about it.