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Contributor: countryhoney21 countryhoney21
First true love.
Been together over 6 years with ups and downs.
He decided to leave me for another Woman. His Family don't approve,
and want us back together! He text saying, There is a chance, will we work it out? I don't know. But I do still love you and yeah I miss you.

He text when he is away from the other Woman.
How do someone get there Man back, when one is gone?
03/29/2013
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Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
Quote:
Originally posted by countryhoney21
First true love.
Been together over 6 years with ups and downs.
He decided to leave me for another Woman. His Family don't approve,
and want us back together! He text saying, There is a chance, will we work it out? I don't know. But ... more
I would tell him honestly how you feel. Honesty is the best policy in this policy here.

after that...the ball is in his court. There's only so much you can do at that point. Good luck!
03/29/2013
Contributor: countryhoney21 countryhoney21
Quote:
Originally posted by jr2012
I would tell him honestly how you feel. Honesty is the best policy in this policy here.

after that...the ball is in his court. There's only so much you can do at that point. Good luck!
Honesty is the best policy, and whats in the dark comes to the light.
Just don't wanna feel like Johnny Cash and June Carter with the Dutch Boy the has his finger stuck in the damn.

I've text him Multiple times, saying how I felt since he won't answer the phone. She won't let him leave her sight, and the Family can only do so much. They message me today and said if I keep calling this girl phone harassing, I will lose him and not have a chance. Think it's strange my phone is being harassed and I get blamed, he is there and I'm here, how can I lose something that was already taken away?

Hung Up in love~ Feel like the Madonna song
03/30/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by countryhoney21
First true love.
Been together over 6 years with ups and downs.
He decided to leave me for another Woman. His Family don't approve,
and want us back together! He text saying, There is a chance, will we work it out? I don't know. But ... more
Heck no. I'd do whatever it took to distance myself. No way I'd just allow him back, no matter what he or his family wants because he will think he can continue to do it again. Plus, the thoughts always hanging in your head, having to TRY and build all that trust back. I honestly couldn't do it. Wouldn't even have the strength. I know you love him, and I can't say what is best for you, but I don't think it's ever a good idea to go straight back.
03/30/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
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You need to not worry about him right now. If you have let him know how you feel, then stop texting and calling. Chasing after him is not working so try something different. If he calls or texts you take a few days or a week to respond.

You need to think about what was wrong in the relationship before he left. Did either of you put other things ahead of the other (job, kids, other family members, friends, etc.) Did either of you keep a record of wrongs and use it against the other person? Were you really happy in the relationship? What would your husband and you need to change to make it work? Just a few things to think about.

Work on you and making yourself the best you can be. If he comes back then he will be coming back to a stronger woman, he will need to respect. If he does not come back you will be more ready for another better relationship. Sometimes we lose ourselves in a relationship by trying to make the other person love us. Often this backfires and the other person runs the other way. Work on developing love and respect for yourself. Maybe treat yourself to a massage, new hair style, mani/pedi, etc.
03/30/2013
Contributor: countryhoney21 countryhoney21
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
You need to not worry about him right now. If you have let him know how you feel, then stop texting and calling. Chasing after him is not working so try something different. If he calls or texts you take a few days or a week to respond. ... more
HIS TEXT (COPIED PASTE):

There is a Chance. Just stop being spiteful. Thats what makes me create things to where it wont work and i just dissappear permanatly. Will we work it out? Idk. But i do still love you and yea i miss ya, but i feel like your making things harder than they have to be. Thats what makes me so angry at you. And ya, honestly, im still angry.

REMARKS:

I will just leave it at this, there wasn't anything that I know of between him and I that have caused him to not be happy and leave. You have given me few good things to think about. I can ensure whom ever reading this post, that I do love this Man, and everyone have some kind of problems, they work them out together. I won't be rushing back because of anything, anyone, cause there are things I would like to fix within my end that have nothing to do with our relationship... but I like to save Money, which I already started!
03/31/2013